paladin181: It's pretty clear. The OP isn't complaining about being forced to kill humanoid pixel mannequins, but rather that there is sex with humanoid pixel mannequins in the game. It's not a stretch, therefore to assume the OP has no problem with the depiction of murder on people, but does take issue with the depictions of consensual sexual activity with people.
No one said that violence and sex are the same (they are in my house. BAZINGA!!) but rather that both are objectionable to large audiences and are therefore the facets under the most scrutiny for censorship. Basically the idea here is more exaggerated in the past than it is today. Movies/games/other visual media would depict explosive eradication of people an a grand scale and characterize it as heroic (First Blood, for instance). However, if you show one female nipple, the movies are no longer suitable for children. Long standing arguments here. But you'll jump on the internet lawyering (not a word) defense team in an instant to throw out some impressive terms like "strawmanning" (also not a word, the little red squiggly line in Firefox told me so) so you can feel more important than you are (see what I did there? I TOTALLY built a strawman argument around your accusation).
Further, his argument hardly qualifies as a straw man because he's not arguing against violence equally, but rather using a form of a relative privation fallacy. He's basically saying that it's pointless to argue gratuitous sex in the games because there's gratuitous violence.
Also you're reading into the idea that phaolo was serious instead of making a statement about the apparent hypocrisy prevalent pretty much everywhere when it comes to calls to censor violence versus calls to censor sexual content.
Gilozard: Honestly, you probably live near some of those people. There are surprisingly creepy misogynists all around. Most men aren't aware because they don't get harassed. It's just not a thing that happens to most guys.
Statistically in the US, 1 in 4 to 1 in 10 women is sexually assaulted. 1 in 10 to 1 in 20 men admits to performing some act of sexual assault. The numbers are vague but pretty scary, even on the lower ends. They don't even include the catcallers or people who think rape jokes are funny because rape is cool (fraternities, man. I'm sure there are some OK ones out there, but I had to walk down frat row to get home for 2 years and aaarrgh. This was at a very liberal university too).
If you know 50 women and 50 men, you probably know at least one person who should be on the sex offender registry, and at least a handful of people who were assaulted.
About jokes - it's like jokes about being black, or about IEDs in Iraq. Too often they're too true, too close to the bone for people who haven't gone through it to make them without being offensive. There's a lot of stuff to joke about. Don't pick subjects that can cause PTSD flashbacks. That's just a jerk move.

paladin181: I'd just like to say that rape jokes aren't ever funny and they are far from the norm where I live.
About sex in your house: No Comment :)
phaolo is explicitly quoting the OP and putting words into the OP's mouth. phaolo is making an argument the OP never made, pretending it's the OP's argument, and then knocking it down. This is strawmanning a.k.a. the straw man argument.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man If he was making a statement about general hypocrisy then he should have made that statement instead of characterizing the OP's argument.
There's no hypocrisy in taking a specific position on a subject. It's totally rational to consider either violence or sex inappropriate and exclude the one you don't like. It's only hypocritical when people who are supposed to be preaching peace and chastity don't bother with the peace part. To be fair, this is most major world religions, but it's definitely possible for someone to rationally take a stance on only one of violence/sex.
I personally argue for both less violence and less nudity/sex in games. I do think they're inherently different though. Both problematic subjects often portrayed gratuitously, but with different issues and impact.
Yeah, rape jokes are never funny. There is a disturbingly large percentage of people who think they are though. And apparently a lot of gamers think that kind of thing is at least tolerable, which is seriously upsetting. :/