Gilozard: I'm just tired of NUUDDES needing to be in every 'serious' RPG. It seems like they're trying to attract the lowest common denominator. I want a deep, interesting RPG where I don't need to deal with no-clothes moments if I don't want to. The way Witcher games have historically treated women and relationships (ex, sex cards) is really unattractive. It's frustrating that the game seems like something I could really like, but it's likely to have dealbreaker problems.
Fenixp: I do like the way you completely ignored several posts pointing out that the sex scenes indeed are avoidable and optional. I'd also like to point out that the way The Witcher treats relationships is way deeper than that, what you're talking about is how it treats casual sex.
The way in which you present your opinion also makes me believe you behave on gossip as opposed to actual experience. Which is absolutely your right of course, but using sentences like "The way Witcher games have historically treated women" without aknowledging that the Witcher games had a few of my absolute favourite female characters in videogames makes you sound a little ... Ignorant? I don't know how to put it politely, sorry.
Not just talking about sex scenes. That's why I specifically said 'nudes' and not 'sex scenes'.
The opening scene of Witcher 3 is apparently a bathing scene. With nudity, because people don't bathe with clothes on. That's the kind of thing I want to be optional. AFAIK it's the opening scene that everyone sees on starting the game. If there's an option to make everyone, at all points, have at least underwear, I haven't heard that.
How optional are the sex scenes really? In DA:Inquisition, they're an integral part of the relationships. So RPG content (NPC relationships) is locked behind a sex-gate, which I find just as annoying as time-gates or cash-gates. I totally want to make a vashoth mage who gets together with iron Bull, but to do that I have to participate in content I find offensive. I want an option to say 'Please, no sex scenes' and still participate in the RPG content. If the Witcher 3 sex scenes are like that, then I wouldn't really call them optional. Game content demands encountering them to experience the content.
It's not really feasible to expect someone to read every post in a thread. Especially one with trolls and insults (not you, other people here). If someone has posted here about how exactly the Witcher nude scenes work, I've missed it. Going by franchise history, I don't think they're likely to have the options I want.
No one can deny that the Witcher games have had very problematic portrayals of women, sex and relationships. Having awesome female characters does not excuse them from this, in the same way that having gay friends doesn't excuse a person using 'faggot' as an insult. Games, and people, can be great in some ways and mess up in other ways.
P.S. Your post was perfectly polite. Thanks for being rational and mature about our disagreement. :)