CatintheHeat: I don't want the thread becoming a flame war. I probably gave out too much information. I have a tendency to do that. I won't bring up the fact that I'm transgender again here.
I just wanted to say +1 and keep your head up. It is of course your own decision how open you want to be about your condition in public. I can totally understand that there are and will always be idiots that will pick on people for simply being different and therefore "not becoming a target" is a valid choice.
You've been incredibly courageous with your coming out already, and I think that is exactly what the world needs. We wouldn't have come that far in terms of gay rights (though there is certainly still a lot to do even in the western world) if there hadn't been more and more people outing themselves, often at the risk of losing jobs, social standing - in some areas even wellbeing or life.
The most intolerant people come from uniform environments - you can see it here in Germany were the Neonazi/right wing conservative density is highest in rural areas with no foreigners to speak of. I think the best recipe against intolerance is promoting the richness of the world.
When I was in my teens I lived in a rural area (first village, then small town). I was known for my "extravagant" outfit - namely wearing only plain black clothes and a brimmed black hat. I didn't really get into trouble because of this, but I sometimes very nearly caused traffic accidents just walking along the road, because people would turn and stare.
When I went to Berlin (my father used to live there) in the same outfit - a very colorful and diverse city - nobody even noticed me.