DO.NOT.PLAY.LEGEND.OF.GRIMROCK.

EVER.

Novotnus should win an award for good taste! I wonder if Grim Fandango should be put in the cartoony/unrealistic category though. Hmmm. Personally, it didn't bother me, but I imagine it might for some.

Thanks for all your other help, it's appreciated. I don't know about Daedra. How much of her do you see? Is the animation realistic and detailed? Do you think the movements and portrayal of the character would creep somebody out? Is she spider-like?

You decide

Okay, Oblivion goes straight into the spider list. Jesus Christ! I'm glad I didn't have to see that animated!

I just recalled that I was wrong and that there a dungeon with spider-like creatures in Heretic Kingdoms: The Inquisition (somewhere near the end).

Sorry!

LOL
and sorry, i didn't think to put a picture. thanks @Fenixp

Thanks :)
Those spiders in DP look more like certain moth (this one to be precise) but they build spiderwebs and are called spiders, so I guess they count :)

Dungeon Siege 3 can be added to the "spider list".

There is a pixelated spider in Teenagent. Your goal is to scare the spider away because the protagonist is afraid of it and refuses to search the room while the spider is there.
I would count it under 'cartoony \ cute' spider.

No spiders in Papers, Please, Raven Legacy of a Master Thief, Expeditions Conquistador, Cognition Erica Reed Thiller..

Cartoony spiders in Magic 2014 (card game), Dragon Commander (units kinda look like spiders)..

All I think of for the moment ^^

Might and Magic I should be safe. I don't remember any spiders in that game.

Oh, and DROD - King Dugan's Dungeon. Lots of cockroaches, bats, serpants, goblins and other creatures to exterminate, but definitely no spiders.

Kilgazar has a 64x64 pixelated spider in it. Not quite cartoony, but not really something that's scary. Probably closer to cartoony.

It's based on a photo of a brown recluse found in our apartment. Fun times. Glad I've moved. Nasty things.

Warning: Do not do an image search for "brown recluse" unless you are prepared to see what the bite looks like.

I don't think Dragon Commander's units look like anything other than mechs - some are multi-legged, but they still look like walking turrets, not arachnids. (The dragon is the only thing that isn't a technological unit, and I doubt that anyone would confuse a dragon with a spider.)

Generally, anything in the "real world board game" category is probably spider-free (unless the original board game had them for some reason), and I'd include things like pinball games in this category. Likewise, most (quasi)historical sims should be spider-free (Caesar/Pharaoh/Zeus/etc). Other than a out-of-control giant movie robot version (robotic AND cartoony) that can destroy things in the city if you trigger a disaster attack, I don't think SimCity has any spiders either.

A lot of spiders in Devil may cry 3.