What exactly is bad about bitches, bitching, or life in general?? They are both good, if you know how to handle them, or things, or situations... And most importantly, if you are patient and willing to understand certain things and facts, both concerning you, and everything else around you.
Most, if not all problems, actually have a solution, even an extreme one. It doesn't matter if said solution isn't readily in reach, the most important thing is that it exists. Problem lies with us that do not detect just that, or we are not content by simply detecting just that. Of course, if we are not powerful enough to seize and realize said solution, this is a problem of ourselves, not life in general. So, detecting solutions and confirming both their existence and possibility to exist or potentiality to be utilized, is more than enough for confirmation, assurance, reassurance, etc.
Problems that cannot be changed or solved are a different category, yet you can always work around them in mysterious ways. And subtle. Also, substitutes are nice. I mean, if you cannot obtain the real deal, the grade A stuff, today, there are so many alternatives and grades scaling, that if you put effort into getting something else, your efforts are always rewarded.
First, you have to "see". Then, you have to "open your mind", as they say, so as to lift restrictions and needless boundaries/limitations imposed on you, either by your own self and ethics code (which can be heavily flawed, mind you, even if decent; sometimes, decent can be TOO good for your OWN good...), or by others; and many times, boundaries imposed by others are either illusionary from our own part/viewpoint/perception, or manipulative from theirs. By having strong will and clear aims, you can bypass those nasty limitations and actually claim whatever it is you desire. Be it the solution of a problem, gaining something for you, helping others, causing problems for others (though heavily NOT recommended), almost anything!. Restrictions and limitations are always doing a damn fine job in getting us sad, depressed, moaning, and bitching over life, and sadly, this is an undisputed fact; you might hate the words i put to express it, but crudely, that's that and you know it.
My life wasn't so good up to this point. I used to hate many things about it, people who caused said things and imposed them on me, and this kind of stuff. Then i started seeing. Other people, other situations. My deal wasn't HALFWAY as bad as others trully have it. Especially since i bothered to find holes and workarounds. Especially since i started wanting to see behind things, claim the initiative, play on the chessboard with equal or greater cunning, myself, and claiming prizes, trophies and rewards. This paragraph can be directed to anyone and everyone, trully. Evolution and adaptation is a wonderful thing. All for the sake of survival. And winning over others, while letting them THINK that they won over you.
Finally, remember, no one is someone else's property. At least in psyche and soul. People are bound to be volatile and toxic, in all kinds of relationships, so someone has to expect so much as that. And adapt accordingly, be it from a mindset perspective, or other ones. We have direct control on ourselves, on HOW things affect us, how easily we heal from wounds (even physically, this is possible), and if and when we decide to stop being passive about life and start forcibly claiming IT for US! Bitches, bitching and Life are WONDERFUL! Stop moaning from having those pushed up in your face constantly, and reach out your hands with enough willpower to claim them all as yours, instead! Be a winner, now!