Vestin: No, don't you bullshit me like this. Sure - you've answered precisely WHAT I'VE SAID. You haven't addressed WHAT I MEANT. Let's look at the definition of 'gamer', shall we?
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gamer ˈgeɪmə/
noun
noun: gamer; plural noun: gamers
a person who plays a game or games, typically a participant in a computer or role-playing game. "every gamer has suffered from small-screen videos" NORTH AMERICAN
a person known for consistently making a strong effort, especially in sport. Sorry mate, I can only respond to what you write. If you want me to respond to what you mean, you are going to have to write what you mean. That said, I agree that, that is one common definition of gamer. All I am saying is that the term "gamer" can mean different things, and I am not alone, there are many others who think that as well (hint: some of the authors of certain articles - if you read them carefully you can see it quite clearly - see below).
Vestin: Other than in the darkest corners of SJW parodies, "gamer" is never defined to mean "misogynist, white cis-gendered manchild".
I don't think "gamer" means "misogynist, white cis-gendered man child". I don't believe I ever said that. I agree that gamer does not mean "misogynist, white cis-gendered man child". We have found a point of agreement!!! :)
htown1980: I understand the orange juice thing, I just don't understand how it assists those people who are using the broader definition of gamer to feel insulted by the articles about gamers being dead.
Vestin: See - as I've mentioned before, when I get spat in the face, I don't say "it's raining". It would be a lot more convenient, wouldn't it?
What we have here is a group of people who use language in a very unorthodox way. That's basically your claim. That's your goddamn defense. "They mean something completely different, therefore you should disregard the interpretation that seems the most obvious." Gotcha.
What a glorious argument they've made too. They've defined gamers as misogynistic assholes... and then said that gamers (that is: misogynistic assholes) are evil. Wow! That's newsworthy, isn't it? That's not all! They also said that this conveniently defined minority (that neither you nor me are part of)... no longer exists! Holy shit - we're now discussing something that DOES NOT EXIST using a language we've assembled for our own purposed! We claim that the LABEL we've assumed to mean something completely different than it is commonly referred to SHOULD NO LONGER BE USED (even though it never has been). We tell this to the public at large. Do you not see the slightest bit of insanity, inherently present in your interpretation of this brought to its logical conclusion?
Again, I don't think they have defined gamers as misogynistic assholes, but I appreciate some people are super defensive about that kind of thing and see those allegations everywhere.
You'll agree that the definition of words changes over time. I really don't think they are being that unorthodox. As I tried to explain earlier (poorly apparently), I have been a gamer for 30 years, over that time the meaning of gamer has changed (the medium being quite new and all).
Here is a quote from another article:
"Gamer was once a convenient shorthand. Two people who had a shared love of a relatively niche medium could use it to identify each other and then bond over something that they wouldn’t necessary talk about in mixed company. The general public used it disdainfully, but it was meaningful.
That hasn’t been true in nearly a decade. As the term splintered, people clung to it and its variations. But now we’re all realizing something that has been true for years: People who play video games don’t need a label—they’re just people. "
Now you might not agree with that use of the term "gamer", but by you refusing to accept that meaning, you are just turning what was not intended to be a personal insult into one. If that is how you get your kicks, more power to you I guess.
htown1980: I don't think the joke does show the issue very well at all. I don't know anyone who uses the definition of homosexual that the parent uses, but even if people do use that definition of homosexual, doesn't that also not assist people who are misunderstanding the use of the word gamer in those articles (as it shows that there can be multiple meanings for one word - which they seem to be ignoring)?
Vestin: That's why I explicitly told you that I gave you enough rope to hang yourself with. I was expecting you to recoil and rethink your stance. I witnessed you tighten the noose.
What you seem to be advocating here is next to linguistic anarchy. I could say ANYTHING, and then claim I understand the words differently, making my statement reasonable... but taking away their impact. The "death of gamers" articles rely on this ambiguity to seem both true and insightful. Once you strip away their double meaning, they are either baseless slander or self-evident trivia.
I am really not following what you are trying to say. Are you saying words can only have multiple meanings if you say they do?
Are you saying, in the very articles where the authors explain what the mean by "gamer", that they are lying about that meaning? They don't actually mean the particular people they express refer to in the article, but they secretly mean all gamers? We should just completely ignore the context? To me the context is very important, using my example earlier, its how you tell the difference between a fluke, a fluke and a fluke, not to mention a fluke.
htown1980: I'm a gamer, you make a comment about a sub-set of gamers that clearly has nothing to do with me, you don't insult me.
Vestin: FFS, man... "No true gamer"? This seems to be a hilarious inversion - "all true gamers are misogynists. If you're not - that's OK, you're just not the TRUE gamer we are writing about".
I am not sure why you quoted "No true gamer". I don't believe I have ever used that phrase. I don't believe true gamers are misogynists. I don't even know what a "true gamer" is supposed to be.
htown1980: If someone says to me "Australians are racist", I'm not insulted by that. I say, yes there is a problem with outright and casual racism in my country and it sucks.
Vestin: Making such generalizations in complete honesty is something I find insulting. That's probably because Truth is mai waifu ;P.
Well you might find you will go through life being insulted often. I hope you find a way of dealing with that.
Perhaps you can clarify something for me. You say in these article "gamer" means "person who plays games". Do you actually think that this article is about how people who play games are "dead' (figuratively dead, not literally I presume)? What possible basis would there be for saying that?