Just broke off any contact with my ex with whom I've been trying to kinda remain friends for ages. Our friendship was in a better place than ever before. Zero jealousy, no regrets, only comfortable and casual but open and honest conversations. We haven't actually been in touch much, just a few chats online and two meetings this year. But it has been taking a toll on my relationship with my girlfriend with whom I've been for many years now and - I'm more certain of that than ever before - I want to marry. Rather soon. I would have done this before but my girlfriend did a perfect job of hiding how much it bothers her. I actually asked her for her permission before each meeting with the ex and she made it seem like it wasn't a big deal to her.
Only several hours ago I learned that it's eating her up and I get it. So I did the whole program: unfriend her (the ex, that is), remove her from any contacts, remove other stuff that could remind me of her and send her an email explaining things including an apology. It's a bit nasty because she was in a pretty shitty place not that long ago. She seemed a tad better the very last time we had a conversation, though. On one hand I feel kinda relieved but I can't deny that it also sucks. She's one of my oldest friends I've been still in touch with and meeting her made me feel good about myself. She showed genuine interest in how I'm doing and what I do, knew the right things to say to lift my spirits and could really relate to the things that bother me. The idea that I'm losing that actually hurts. Still, it's worth the sacrifice and I'll have to make sure that my girlfriend and friends I have no problematic history with will take her place entirely.
Yes. We know all the that. What we want to know is, does she have nice tits? =)