Tormentfan: Well I'd certainly agree about the lack of any unspoken rules.... when you can let his lable fly on a site open to everyone I get the impression that you either don't do your moderation jobs properly, or that anything goes. Which is it?
jamyskis: That's actually very true. It personally makes my groin itch how obsessively Steam forum mods enforce rules that don't exist, inconsistently enforce rules that do exist and don't stick to their own rules at the best of times. (Edit: This is not a rage against Steam, but a random example. I think the same shit happens on the Gamespot and IGN forums, but I don't even bother going on those anymore).
The way that GOG does it is a rare thing but it works. Be as profane and controversial as you want, but when you start trying to get a rise out of people - which is what I get the feeling deathkitten is trying to do - is where the line is drawn.
Writing CUNT CUNT CUNT to make a political statement is one thing, calling someone else a cunt for the sole purpose of being abusive another altogether.
Calling it a 'political statement' is a bit of a joke.. I see no context pointing out as such, however.. if I were to use that word against someone I certainly wouldn't expect moderators to pop up and penalise me, where as 'certain' usages get away with it.
In my book I call that hypocracy.
I don't know how it's felt about anywhere else, but in the UK it's a particularly nasty word only used by shitboxes and scumbags.