Posted January 28, 2015
tiny E
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Vythonaut
Per aspera ad astra
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From Greece
Posted January 28, 2015
Smannesman
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KiNgBrAdLeY7
Слава России! ура́
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From Other
Posted January 28, 2015
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Tallima: You could get her a picture of an ass. https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=mirror&tbm=shop
Seriously, if you're having an affair with a married woman, then you are destroying very important bonds. She may be venting frustrations or be looking for a midlife crisis. She's likely not interested in you, but could be. Either way, your wangtastic ventures are going to end up in pain for you, the woman you're beginning to like, her husband, and her children. And her parents. And his parents. Both of their siblings. Everyone they associate with that finds out (which they will eventually). Your parents and sibling. Your friends.
And that's if it doesn't end in murder or you getting the shit beaten out of you. Which you should.
So, for real, I'd recommend the gift of absence. You can go find a nice girl who doesn't have everything to lose by being with you, and then build something with her. It feels a lot better than being the wrecking ball.
(The venom is intended to be highlight just how destructive your actions are. I have no personal qualms for I am far from the situation. But I know many situations like this and every last one of them ended poorly -- ranging in bitter marriages as a low and as high as child's suicide and murder.)
No, it's okay. This is no venom. Rather, the voice of reason, of sorts. I wish, i really do, i could follow your advice. But having done just that in the past, scarred me and ruined me; which is; "go find a nice girl who doesn't have everything to lose by being with you, and then build something with her". They ate me for breakfast and abused me so hard, those seemingly "nice" girls, that it is a miracle i preserved my marbles in one piece and one place. I don't believe in anything, anymore. I simply try to get opportunities and deceive myself that i am having fun. Well, even though it is twisted as a statement, even under those circumstances, i do have fun. Because i do not have a choice. The only thing i cannot get over, is being attached easily to someone and being sentimental. I could never do the regular guys' thing; which is to vanish forever after one quick, even to a deserving partner. I always have to get stuck and worry and like and try to be with the other one. I am not a total bastard, at least... Seriously, if you're having an affair with a married woman, then you are destroying very important bonds. She may be venting frustrations or be looking for a midlife crisis. She's likely not interested in you, but could be. Either way, your wangtastic ventures are going to end up in pain for you, the woman you're beginning to like, her husband, and her children. And her parents. And his parents. Both of their siblings. Everyone they associate with that finds out (which they will eventually). Your parents and sibling. Your friends.
And that's if it doesn't end in murder or you getting the shit beaten out of you. Which you should.
So, for real, I'd recommend the gift of absence. You can go find a nice girl who doesn't have everything to lose by being with you, and then build something with her. It feels a lot better than being the wrecking ball.
(The venom is intended to be highlight just how destructive your actions are. I have no personal qualms for I am far from the situation. But I know many situations like this and every last one of them ended poorly -- ranging in bitter marriages as a low and as high as child's suicide and murder.)
Crewdroog: Didn't you post one time about not finding love in threesomes and dating a teenage girl? Now we are dating a woman with a family. You keep trolling and stay classy.
If I'm not remembering you correctly, please correct me and I apologize, but I think I'm right. On my phone so I can't use search:
You remember, but neither the details, nor the point. And certainly not the outcome. In one case, i was fed up because i realized something hyped wasn't half as good or worth to try, as some people think. The other one, was a moral dilemma. Which i presented, took into consideration the points made in conversation and finally decided to stay away. If I'm not remembering you correctly, please correct me and I apologize, but I think I'm right. On my phone so I can't use search:
It's funny though. If you believe i am trolling, ok with me, i don't need to prove anything. Wouldn't i have more interesting things to do, other than trying to find a gift for an "imaginary" someone that "doesn't exist" and i am simply trolling? And where's the classy in either trolling, or in trolling along those lines?!?
About phone, no thanks. I never give it out. And it would cost a fortune to connect over there, regardless.
KiNgBrAdLeY7: She returns to her husband anyway... Who is none the wiser. I of course know about that; some point later she won't be able to see me anymore, or want, or anything.
My feelings are irrelevant. I have learned to enjoy the moment, savor life to its fullest and accept that everything is going to expire, anyway.
Vythonaut: I did understood that she returns. ;-) My feelings are irrelevant. I have learned to enjoy the moment, savor life to its fullest and accept that everything is going to expire, anyway.
Anyway, kudos to you for your statement about how you live your life. If my opinion can help you, don't buy her anything material but offer her an experience; a small trip, a hotel suite with champagne / jacuzzi and the usual stuff, a dinner at a good restaurant (in another town), pretty much anything that would make you spend time together.
Post edited January 28, 2015 by KiNgBrAdLeY7
DeMignon
Dad but alive
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Vythonaut
Per aspera ad astra
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From Greece
Tallima
TreasureHunting!
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From United States
Posted January 29, 2015
If nobody is manning the wheel, then the rudder is unable to steer. If the rudder cannot steer, the ship will go where it goes.
You do have a choice. You have many choices.
Not being a dick about one-night stands is not a ticket to destroy people. Nor does possessing emotions.
Perhaps you started with a bad assumption. All relationships end up being crap. It's the one that ends up as less crap that strengthens and becomes a strong bond of family. You don't want to fall victim to a fallacy and believe that all healthy relationships are crap. Because the rough parts of a healthy relationship are good, too.
I'm sure I can't convince you one way or the other about anything, but I hope that when the world comes tumbling down for you that the pain isn't unbearable for all of the parties involved. It's a false hope, though. You'll likely get away feeling the least amount of pain and the rest of the family will feel like they've been shot in the chest for the next 20 years.
The deed is done, but I hope you begin to make choices for your life soon.
You do have a choice. You have many choices.
Not being a dick about one-night stands is not a ticket to destroy people. Nor does possessing emotions.
Perhaps you started with a bad assumption. All relationships end up being crap. It's the one that ends up as less crap that strengthens and becomes a strong bond of family. You don't want to fall victim to a fallacy and believe that all healthy relationships are crap. Because the rough parts of a healthy relationship are good, too.
I'm sure I can't convince you one way or the other about anything, but I hope that when the world comes tumbling down for you that the pain isn't unbearable for all of the parties involved. It's a false hope, though. You'll likely get away feeling the least amount of pain and the rest of the family will feel like they've been shot in the chest for the next 20 years.
The deed is done, but I hope you begin to make choices for your life soon.
HypersomniacLive
The Reluctant Voter
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Piranjade
*twirls*
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tiny E
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Posted January 29, 2015
I cannot believe we are still discussing this. :P
v o i d | flower
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From United States
Posted January 29, 2015
Are you fucking serious?
Post edited January 29, 2015 by JKHSawyer
DieRuhe
my glasses are dirty
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From United States
Posted January 29, 2015
I would say no, don't buy her anything.
I myself have been involved with married women, and while it involved some of the best "all things" I've encountered, we eventually just drifted apart. Fun while it lasted. But it didn't last, and I doubt any of us expected or wanted it to.
I myself have been involved with married women, and while it involved some of the best "all things" I've encountered, we eventually just drifted apart. Fun while it lasted. But it didn't last, and I doubt any of us expected or wanted it to.
marsrunner
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tiny E
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Posted January 29, 2015
Sounds to me that not only is he fucking serious but that he is in fact literally fucking serious.
tfishell
Remorse: The List, if you like FPS psych horror
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