I think you'll find the phrase is what goes around, comes around, and I suspect, based on this post, you might not understand what it means...

How dare you?! With sweet lady propane you taste the meat NOT the heat!

Yeah, you get a +1 for that one ;-)
That's what she said.

Fake Chow. Best of both worlds (for her).

Because some "single" girls ruin your romance in the past you are endangering the lifestyle of this women who is good to you?

How will her children or her family think of her when they find out, how will your family think of you when they find out? The only way they will not find out is you stop seeing her, if you keep at it, people will find out sooner or later.
I would recommend a parting gift of books on physiological, family, or childcare.

As for "single" girls that ruin your romance, ever think why that happen? What is your criteria to date a girl? If you can go by looks, have fun, excitement alone then you may be disappointed like the past.

If you reject girls that have family / moral values below a certain standard, you are less likely to be hurt. It also goes without saying girls of certain caliber will only be attracted to man of certain caliber. Birds of a feather flock together. If I wish to date an ideal girl, my action, livelyhood, characteristic, world view have to be her "type". If my "type" attracts the wrong girl, then maybe I have to improve myself.

I don't think it's a matter of what anyone else will think. It's possible that the woman is unhappy with her marriage, and I know people who cheated and ended up marrying the person they cheated with, and living happily. It's hard on the children, and that's a consideration worth making, but for general happiness it's a question of how serious the cheating partners are. If the woman only sees it as a nice diversion and wants to keep her family, this should end.

Some people like Tallima made really great posts. Other people made great comments. And as usual, there were the occasional jokes and minor trolling in the picture, but i don't mind at all... Thanks to Licurg and Vytho-something who also is a "neighbor", they both answered to the question i set at the title, and as i said above, Vytho-someone's was exactly what i had been searching for! Once again i found what i sought, thanks to you, people! Deepest, honest and most sincere apologies to all persons who found offense in any part of the discussion, i really wish i wouldn't have to either live this way, or others being bugged off by me simply for wanting to discuss it.

Society made me what i am and the fact that i do not have a choice; at least, a valid choice which will allow me to live my life decently with the most basic needs/rights as a modern human and all. I have to "steal", to "scavenge" and "leech", in order to indulge in things most people take for granted, or never even stopped for a second to think about. Unfortunately for some, i found the means and ways to be competent enough to generally realize my wishes, even against all odds and expectations, or even "hindrances" and interference.

I am not a saint and i sure as hell wouldn't like to end up a martyr. Also, there are people that do much, MUCH worse, yet they play holy or holier than thou and judge or even worse condemn... As well as people that are totally ignorant and clueless to the various, many, daily things that happen right next to them and they never notice. Not implying anything, of course.

Thank you everyone for your participation. And i wish to everyone, especially the hard critics, to never find themselves in any kind of ugly situation or shortage, with whatever meaning you want to give. I wish true happiness to everyone, either those who actually found it for good, or those who think they found it. Life is too short and too unpredictable to consume ourselves with negative feelings.

P.S. No. As per chemistry and sociology rules, "birds of a feather" go opposite sides without fail and are never attracted into the same area. Unfortunately. (one reason why jackasses are usually preferred over good boys, or why "nerdogeeks" end up with "supermodels")