petitmal: linking to someone else's idea's and words is way too easy and lazy and so very boring that it will never return new insights.
And, let's be honest: you totally disregarded everything I said. You aren't really interested in the ideas of others. You just like to vent your own.
Dalthnock: Well, I linked to proof that the economy will not change that much, which was what the Remain campaign tried to scare people with.
I could've just said that the US & even Germany backed out of their threats in one day, but then you or somebody else would probably ask for proof. Damned if I do, damned if I don't.
I do apologise if it seemed I disregarded everything you said, I just thought it unnecessary to discuss each point when I thought I could sum it up in that what you fear is exactly what I hope for.
I actually don't understand WHY you would fear other countries willing to leave the EU when you say it yourself that you agree with me, albeit grudgingly, that you don't like what the EU has become, either.
I didn't say we should abolish the idea, the idea itself is good. But I do believe that when a house is rotten to its very foundation, it's best to tear it down & then rebuild it.
You are right that I'm very headstrong. But then again, I did watch many videos & read many articles from both sides before making up my mind, & it seems to me that all the Remain arguments were consistently weak. So while I have changed my mind on other issues before, you're right that it'd be very difficult to change it in this particular one, as it would require a better argument than the Leave campaign has come up with.
Changing one's mind in the issue is irrelevant though, as it's already been decided. So I posit to you that all everyone's doing in this thread is arguing for the sake of arguing, which in itself is not necessarily bad. But no one's going to win anything with this, or even win anyone over, I don't think.
You obviously have the right to find this exercise futile, of course. It is.
Perhaps I jumped to conclusions. I apologize.
Some houses need tearing down before rebuilding, that's true; it can be best. But the comparison does not fit: the Union is not a house. If you tear down the E.U. and rebuild it I wonder which occupants it will attract, if any, when the rebuilding is done. (I think it is more like a marriage. Once they are tore down they don't usually get rebuilded. If you want to save them you try to better them from the inside).
Now, when the *European House* stays empty afterwards, some might argue there's no need for this house, this ideal no more. I believe differently. I think history will repeat itself and Europe runs the risk of descending in bickering and argument - again. In my view one thing this failing Europe DID achieve is that our generation lives in the longest interbellum in Europe's history. One success that is put aside all to easily. Seems to me we have forgotten each generation before us experienced a European war at least once in a lifetime. Farage; Wilders; Le Pen; Grillo; these people do not hold the answers; their nostalgia longs for something that never was.
I like to address something you said about fear: it is a feeling; an emotion, One that has been used by both sides in the Brexit campaign, and one that in a way, sticks up its ugly head in this discussion too. It is time for us to understand that in these matters it is best to use our heads. The people in the U.K. who grudged against the Union will in a few years grudge against their own government - as they did before. Because that is what they do. They grudge. They feel. Thinking, as a fact of the matter, is deemed highly suspect.
We may ask ourselves: do we generally take our best decissions when we use emotion or when we use intellect, or a mix of both gently put together?
I apologize for being headstrong as well. I was too eager to reach a conclusion, somehow my emotions took the best of me . ;)
Thank you for you r reply... which I do not consider to be futile.