GoG usually takes a bit longer then steam or humble, first they have to get the update from the developer, then they run it through their own QA to make sure it doesn't break the game and render it unplayable, then they either decide to release it as a patch or as a updated installer.
and all of this depends on WHEN the dev sends the update to them so if a dev releases a patch near the weekend, it can show up early the next week or even the week after, it honestly depends.
when a game is updated (or games) a little number will show up by "Account" and then it follow the number to your library and search for a game with the "updated" tag, the forum also has this thread
http://www.gog.com/forum/general/the_what_did_just_update_thread/ which keeps track of what has updated in GOG (usually head to the last page which is 219 as of this writing. )
Any further questions I or other GOGgers will be glad to help :) the staff are pretty responsive too, but it can take a bit of time as GOG is based in Poland.