Posted March 26, 2015
tl;dr: The lease for our three-room apartment was terminated six weeks ago and I just had to tell my flatmate of four years that I'll be moving into a new two-room apartment with flatmate no. 2.
I feel like a piece of shit.
Long (very long) version: Our lease was unexpectedly terminated six weeks ago. Flatmate no. 2 and I have to move out by 30 June, flatmate no. 1 by 31 August. We decided that we'd try and look for a new apartment as a group but also look for single- or two-room options on the side and to find a new home as quickly as possible. The latter because our city's housing market is fucked up enough at the best of times, once students start searching accomodation for the new term around may-ish it just goes kablooey.
Predictably, finding suitable and affordable apartments for the three of us has been ridiculously hard, we only had 4 viewings since, usually we'd simply get no answer at all or at best a "Sharehome arrangement? For three? HELL NO!". Even the simpler two-room option mostly got the same result despite getting a lot more viewings at least.
On Saturday we had a short-notice viewing for an awesome three-room apartment but it was only flatmate no. 2 and me. Flatmate no. 1 preferred to go out with a friend. That didn't sit too well with us, especially since he hadn't actively been searching for apartments up to this point. On Monday he apologized, promised to start participating and made an arrangement for viewing the apartment on the next possible date (tomorrow/Friday)...
That evening we were offered one of the two-room apartments we had viewed last week. We got two more offers within 90 minutes which a) is more luck in 90 minutes than most people have in a year and b) proves that "unattractive unless taken" is not only true for relationships...
We accepted the best of the offers but tried to stall the signing of the lease for as long as possible to allow for a chance to score the three-room apartment instead. Unfortunately, we couldn't stall past Friday, 5pm, which is when we'll sign the lease. That means the "move as a group" option is now definitely out, because we decided that we wouldn't/couldn't skip a good opportunity for just a vague chance at a better one. And I just had to tell flatmate no. 1...
Flatmate no. 1 is the "weakest link" in our group, financially speaking. He's self-employed, so he has no steady income and he earns substantially less than either flatmate no. 2 or me. Staying with us (or one of us) was his best (if not only) chance to find a decent place to live without leaving the city altogether. And his inertness aside, he's a very sweet guy.
Flatmate no. 1 is also the one who "took me in" four years ago against at least some objections of our then flatmate when I was desperately searching for a place to live. I was pursuing a translator's degree which meant that I had no income (it actually cost money every month) and was living off my savings. I had been searching for six months at that point (and been in school for the last four). I had been crashing on friends' and relatives' couches in other cities for some time and finally resorted to moving in back home and commuting 250 miles each day (that's 400 km in roman-catholic). I know that it wasn't pure altruism on his part, of course first and foremost he just wanted someone to pay part of the rent before it would fall to him and his other flatmate. But in the end it was his decision and advocacy that got me my home for the last four years (and an obscenely cheap one at that).
I just told him, that I'll be moving into a new two-room apartment with flatmate no. 2.
I feel like a piece of shit.
I feel like a piece of shit.
Long (very long) version: Our lease was unexpectedly terminated six weeks ago. Flatmate no. 2 and I have to move out by 30 June, flatmate no. 1 by 31 August. We decided that we'd try and look for a new apartment as a group but also look for single- or two-room options on the side and to find a new home as quickly as possible. The latter because our city's housing market is fucked up enough at the best of times, once students start searching accomodation for the new term around may-ish it just goes kablooey.
Predictably, finding suitable and affordable apartments for the three of us has been ridiculously hard, we only had 4 viewings since, usually we'd simply get no answer at all or at best a "Sharehome arrangement? For three? HELL NO!". Even the simpler two-room option mostly got the same result despite getting a lot more viewings at least.
On Saturday we had a short-notice viewing for an awesome three-room apartment but it was only flatmate no. 2 and me. Flatmate no. 1 preferred to go out with a friend. That didn't sit too well with us, especially since he hadn't actively been searching for apartments up to this point. On Monday he apologized, promised to start participating and made an arrangement for viewing the apartment on the next possible date (tomorrow/Friday)...
That evening we were offered one of the two-room apartments we had viewed last week. We got two more offers within 90 minutes which a) is more luck in 90 minutes than most people have in a year and b) proves that "unattractive unless taken" is not only true for relationships...
We accepted the best of the offers but tried to stall the signing of the lease for as long as possible to allow for a chance to score the three-room apartment instead. Unfortunately, we couldn't stall past Friday, 5pm, which is when we'll sign the lease. That means the "move as a group" option is now definitely out, because we decided that we wouldn't/couldn't skip a good opportunity for just a vague chance at a better one. And I just had to tell flatmate no. 1...
Flatmate no. 1 is the "weakest link" in our group, financially speaking. He's self-employed, so he has no steady income and he earns substantially less than either flatmate no. 2 or me. Staying with us (or one of us) was his best (if not only) chance to find a decent place to live without leaving the city altogether. And his inertness aside, he's a very sweet guy.
Flatmate no. 1 is also the one who "took me in" four years ago against at least some objections of our then flatmate when I was desperately searching for a place to live. I was pursuing a translator's degree which meant that I had no income (it actually cost money every month) and was living off my savings. I had been searching for six months at that point (and been in school for the last four). I had been crashing on friends' and relatives' couches in other cities for some time and finally resorted to moving in back home and commuting 250 miles each day (that's 400 km in roman-catholic). I know that it wasn't pure altruism on his part, of course first and foremost he just wanted someone to pay part of the rent before it would fall to him and his other flatmate. But in the end it was his decision and advocacy that got me my home for the last four years (and an obscenely cheap one at that).
I just told him, that I'll be moving into a new two-room apartment with flatmate no. 2.
I feel like a piece of shit.
Post edited March 27, 2015 by Randalator