First of all, my apologies for the delay in my response--I've been somewhat tired of late. ^^;
awalterj: If the culture is the opinion of the majority ...
It both is and isn't. Consider movies: if you were to approach a broad group of people selected at random from the general public and asked them to name some movies that they considered to be "classics", would you be likely to get much overlap with the results of same question asked of a group of film students?
As I see it, there isn't just one culture, but rather (broadly speaking), many lesser cultures, some of which contribute (in part or in whole) to a broader culture--and each culture has its own "list of classics". The closest thing that we're likely to see to an "official" list is that compiled by those who study the medium, who seem likely to be aware of historical games.
(More accurately--albeit that this is a lay opinion, and I do stand for correction--I'd describe culture as a multi-dimensional field, rather than a simple set. If culture were colour, I feel that it would be inaccurate to say that a given community (such as a country) is all blue, another all green, and so on. Rather, while there might be tendencies and trends--community A leans towards blue on average, while community B leans towards green--we'd instead see waves of colour shading one into another; zooming in to the level of the individual, each would have their own individual colour, often similar to those around them--that's a part of what culture is, after all--but not homogeneous.)
awalterj: Which means that we quickly need to make the classics list before the young people who never played the classics and therefor don't consider them classics completely marginalize and outnumber us and we then get a classics canon that includes Halo and Assassin's Creed and things like that.
On the other hand, isn't one of the hallmarks of a classic that it can stand the test of time? Surely, if the works that we hold up for consideration as classics are really up to the label, then modern audiences--or enthusiasts, at least--will still enjoy them? As to modern games, those that don't stand the test of time may make it onto new lists, but it seems likely that they'll fall prey to the same effect themselves, falling away as subsequent generations ignore them.
awalterj: As for Torment, I haven't finished it yet and every time I mention that someone comes to take away my gamer card ...
All right, stop there, hand over your card. ;P
More seriously, if you're not finding that you're enjoying it enough to keep playing, then that's fine. Different people have different tastes, and even classics aren't likely to be universally enjoyed.
awalterj: But it certainly works that way, first there's a couple of cultists who create a wishlist for a game that isn't yet on GOG ...
I do rather like the mental image of groups of us standing around in black robes, chanting over a faintly glowing icon (in both senses of the word) hovering just above a low, round plinth. ^_^
I'm tempted to make a joke about one of my own entries, but since it involves
a historical goddess I'm not sure of how I feel bout that. XD;
awalterj: I'm hoping this will happen with The Neverhood which is why one can't talk too much about The Neverhood.
There's other very deserving games with less votes on their wishlist that also deserve to be peddled to the masses but The Neverhood is just a real fine choice to do that with.
So, I'm guessing that you like The Neverhood? :P
(I've never actually played The Neverhood, myself; it doesn't really grab my interest, I fear.)