KJGamer: Nothing really to this post (and I don't have the willpower to start over) just a way for me to vent/cope/grieve lol without typing in all caps and flipping the table and cursing cd red so badly even Geralt would have trouble lifting it.  
 Anyway for the others who had this problem how far in did you realize it? 
 EvanTheJet: How did you figure this out at the 45 hour mark? Are you saying your W2 save file import did not work?  
 Incidentally, I got a chuckle out of your "curse" comment. 
 yeah it looks like I didn't work for me :/ and I got suspicious after talking to triss (just got to her) and something seemed off.  
 I did some searching found out I already should of ran into letho (went back to the save of the mission to run into him) just to check and he isn't around so thats how I figured... but if letho is bugged and I just happen to be wrong that make me really happy lol.  
 And good about the chuckling at the comment kinda what I was going for ...also the idea of it makes me kinda feel better lol  
 edit: any one know a console command that would allow me to do letho's mission? (without breaking the game)