IwubCheeze: I just finished my first complete solo playthrough of IWD1 with a half elf fighter/mage/thief. While you won't need the thief component when playing with a party, an elf fighter/mage can really be a versatile addition to your party. As long as you keep stoneskin and mirror image active, he won't be needing much healing (salamander auras were annoying though), even when tanking on the front lines. Before, I neglected fighter/mages because I didn't like the idea of a front line tank wearing robes but he turned out much better than I thought.
If you're lucky enough to get the Elven Chain or Kaylessa's Chain, your FTR/Mage can wear armor and cast spells.
IwubCheeze: I strongly suggest ditching the generalist mage for a fighter/mage, you won't be disappointed.
The pure mage will level faster, giving you access to higher spell levels sooner. Of course, this is moot if you're not finding higher level spells to memorize.