Posted September 14, 2011
I didn't intend to imply "malicious reasoning or lack of thinking" on your part. But since you're wondering, I do indeed believe that you're missing something when you say "that is all there is to it". I think in particular that a different attitude towards gender can reasonably be expected from 35 year olds nowadays.
I'm not saying your attitude is uncommon. But I've been educated in other countries with somewhat different values than the ones prevailing in the UK. And I was fortunate to have teachers who taught me about good writing and demonstrated to me that there are more interesting things out there than what I would have thought would interest me. Such teachers were available to the daughters of refugees as well as the sons of diplomats. I'm not sure kids have it so good these days.
I'm not saying your attitude is uncommon. But I've been educated in other countries with somewhat different values than the ones prevailing in the UK. And I was fortunate to have teachers who taught me about good writing and demonstrated to me that there are more interesting things out there than what I would have thought would interest me. Such teachers were available to the daughters of refugees as well as the sons of diplomats. I'm not sure kids have it so good these days.