StingingVelvet: Nah, everyone loves the community and social features Steam provides, as well as the auto-patching and other such conveniences. Same thing on Xbox Live and PSN really, and you can bet those services will turn into Steam on the next generation of consoles, i.e. DRM.
I wish most people preferred the GOG method and we could have a DRM free swing, but they just don't. Diablo 3: worst DRM ever, best selling PC game of all time. They just don't give a shit.
Well, one thing I like about Xbox Live is that it's not mandatory. I have mine offline although networked for streaming media from my PC. Maybe the next generation will make it similar to Steam but it's not mandatory yet, so take that. While I can see some benefits to making patching easier, I think that relying on automatic patching can give developers an incentive to be lazy and more likely to release buggy games. Personally, I'd rather be able to choose if I want a patch or not, like don't install patch 1.3 for ToEE pleaze.
If you (speaking generally) want Xbox Live Gold you pay for it and if you don't want it you do nothing. The more people pay for it, the more Microsoft spends on upgrading features and its infrastructure (Xbox Live's network stability is pretty damn good). And don't you dare mod your console to be a homebrew gaming center with a 500 gb self-installed hard drive full of "illegal" games while using Xbox Live! If you want to both mod a 360 and have access to Xbox Live, you buy two Xbox's. I think this is a better way to vote for what you want, so if people want Steam maybe it should be a separate charge. Speaking of which, I think a better way to vote for modding on the PC is to let modders charge for their service if they want to. They don't have to though either. DLC is like options on a new car to me. I'd rather buy the base package and go to an independent shop for my options if I want some.
KyleKatarn: That sounds nice, and I agree it should be irrelevant, but circumvention isn't usually legal and is looked at as the same thing as any other piracy.
StingingVelvet: This is an extremely complicated issue with rulings on both sides that won't be resolved for decades, so making absolute statements about it is frankly ridiculous.
Yeah, like stating PC DRM is irrelevant :P
A little bit more on topic, something like a hypothermia mod for Skyrim is a reason why I'm considering trying to get back into PC gaming other than older games that work on my laptop. I think I might acquire a cracked version though.
edit: inserted Xbox Live Gold to be clear