moonshineshadow: So after a breakup of a seven year relationship it sometimes feels lonely to be at home alone. So besides the typical answer "just go out an be among people" I am curious to see what you do, when you feel lonely?
I started reading more books again, since I have more time now and noticed that with a good book I am forgetting that feeling pretty fast :D
I developed a pattern:
After each ended relationship I start a totally new hobby and put as much of my energy into it as possible.
This way I did become quite well at playing the scottish bagpipes, whistles, german and french styles on the hurdy-gurdy, making small "jewelry/ornaments" out of wood and fencing in traditional ways with Rapier, Sword and Longsword.
This way you have a vent for mental and physical energy, something where you can put your "love surplus" into and at the same time you get more interesting for other girls long term.
Yeah, I've been through quite a few break-ups as can be seen on this list.... :/
Look at it this way:
There is so much interesting stuff to do and now you finally got the time for it!