i completely understand 
 i stopped sending gifts through the email.  
 & dealt with someone trying to trade Steam Gifts that i made. 
 its hard to bounce back from that & not be paranoid from it, im also feeling that same way   
 @ the group  
 i personally would like to see more thank yous, when sending out gifts. 
 cause otherwise its hard to know when people receive the gifts. 
 or at least people stating that they received it if they cant say thank you. 
 acknowledgement would be nice. 
 especially since the person that i had trouble with marked that they received it & instead, did not, but were rather using it as a trade    
dr.schliemann: Very good one. Thanks a lot and +rep. 
 Ian: liquid mate :) (hi btw) - i take on your words and will adhere from now on. I have spoken to dr.schliemann via pm, and I admitted to him that I am rather paranoid after the Bioshock episode. In no way was I calling him out, my intention was just to gain a response, so I could give him his gift :)  
 Sometimes I cannot control how i react to things, I would be grateful if you peeps would point out to me when I over react, as hopefully by now, you know it would never be my intention to upset/hurt anyone.  
 @DarkoD13 - wow really tempted, but as my backlog has more teeth than Dracula, I am going to resist. Very generous +1 :)