WildHobgoblin: Dear OP, I'm very sorry for not providing an answer, but I've got a Galaxy related question that I fear is a bit stupid, and I didn't really want to open a new thread for it, so, in case anyone in the know reads this:
Today I opened Galaxy again (I'm not really using it, it just sits there and I ogle it occasionally hoping it behaves).
So, I opened it and learned that a couple of games that I recently installed (not via Galaxy, obviously) have been added, which is something I didn't ask it to do. It also immediately started downloading some "updates" (?) which I also did not ask it to do. I'd like to punish it for its trespassing, but since that seems unlikely to be possible, my questions are:
Will now every Gog game I install (via separate installer) be added to Galaxy, or can I disable that somehow?
GOG's standalone installers eventually will all be updated to contain Galaxy integration support however currently many games do not. The games that do have Galaxy integration support will automatically inform Galaxy that they were just installed upon completion of the installation. This is built into the installer, where it invokes GalaxyClient.exe on its own with some commandline switches to inform Galaxy of the freshly installed game so that it will show up in Galaxy automatically. This will happen whether or not Galaxy client is currently running or not and there is no way that I'm aware of to tell it to not do this except not having Galaxy client installed. Galaxy will indeed automatically verify the games and sync them to fix any corruption as well as auto-updating them to the latest version by default.
There is no way to disable any of that currently, no way to configure it.
It is however possible to work around some of this if desired.
Always exit the Galaxy client completely before installing games via standalone installers. Before starting up Galaxy, go into the directory where the game was installed to and rename the file named "goggame*.info" by appending ".disabled" onto the end of it so that it has a different file extension. That way when Galaxy starts up and looks in the directory it will not find the .info file it requires and it will automatically remove the game from the list of installed games it knows about and will not look at it again after that. It will not update the game, and your game is essentially completely detached from Galaxy client. (I'm not sure whether or not Galaxy achievements and/or game time tracking will function with this, but I do not think so.)
WildHobgoblin: Can I make it so that "manual updating" is the default behaviour? (I know I can do this separately for every single game)
With the current version of Galaxy client, no. There is an option shown in settings now for about 2 years to disable the auto-update feature but it is more or less in a seemingly permanent state of "under construction" like all of the other greyed out options teasing us that do not work. They really should just remove those options completely or implement them completely. Having unusable "options" that aren't options just acting as 1990's style "under construction" web graphics isn't terribly useful in a program and is quite frustrating. They claim that they will make auto-updates optional in the future but do not give any time estimate as to when that might be so all of this "optional" functionality may not be optional for 2-5 years in "GOG time(TM)". :)
So the only way to prevent a game from being auto-updated, is to make sure the client is NOT running, then detach the game from Galaxy by renaming or deleting the .info file (I recommend renaming). There MIGHT be a way to edit something in the registry perhaps on a per game basis but I still need to do more digging around in there to see if it can be sledgehammered.
WildHobgoblin: Can I remove the games that have already been added (without uninstalling the game from my HD)? It's not bothering me hugely, I'd just like to know. I know there's this kind of cumbersome way where you copy the game's files some place else and then uninstall via Galaxy, but isn't there an easier option?
Yes, with the .info file trick mentioned above. The .info file is a JSON config file Galaxy uses to learn about the game installation. If it isn't there or doesn't have the file name Galaxy expects, it wont find it and will treat the game as not being present, removing it from the list of games it is aware are installed.
Sadly, unless someone from GOG speaks up, or someone in the community has a better solution, the hacks I mention above are the only way to do it at the moment as ugly as they are. :o(