Sandking: Hi,
Do you know any point and click adventure games which have either pause option at any time or the ones where you have to click to get on with text on screen?
I wouldn't really consider it point and click, but it does involve using the mouse quite often :P
I'd suggest Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic.
It has an auto pause option in the middle of combat, which is very handy for thinking about what attacks your going to do next.
It's extremely dialogue heavy, and you have many different responses to choose from. Thankfully, there is no requirement for fast responses and you can essentially leave for a long period of time and return to the game with the conversation options still being the same.
I'm not all that sure if your a all that interested in Star Wars games, but defs have a look at it regardless, assuming you don't already have it or know about it of course :D