Fair warning, this post will be biased because Type O Negative is my favorite band. They never changed their style. Type O has always been Gothic Doom Metal. They are self described as, Black Sabbath meets the Beatles in a haunted factory in Brooklyn.
Different music does different things for different people, but this band has helped me through some tough times by writing songs that are about subjects that other bands and artists are unwilling to even admit exist within their personalities let alone touch on and admit to feeling that way in a song. They're unapologetic with brutal honesty about subjects ranging from depression, vulnerability, self loathing, suicidal, and violent thoughts, addiction, mourning of loved ones... They also had fantasy/horror and quite a bit of humor, sarcasm and ball busting interwoven within much of their work.
Peter Steele died in 2010. He was the lead singer and main composer of the music of Type O Negative. He used to sing for Carnivore before Type O Negative was formed. Carnivore was a death metal band which wasn't the right outlet for what Peter was trying to accomplish musically so this led to the formation of Type O. The band was one of a kind and they're sorely missed by myself and many of their fans now.
Love you to Death is referring to "little death" which is another term for orgasm. It's an extremely vulnerable, vivid, insecure and awkward yet boldly brave at the same time, song that I never get tired of. The band wasn't overly fond of the video or the shoot, but it is what it is. In my opinion the original longer version of the song is much more cohesive at illustrating it's finer points about putting the needs and wants of another before your own. That's not emo or weak. It's the exact opposite imo.
Like I said many of their topics can be hard pills to swallow but some appreciate no hold barred brutal honesty in music. I know I do.
I wish others could see the value I see is this band and what they contributed. So, give them another chance sometime if you can. Some people get it and others don't.