The purpose of gun control is to ensure a near monopoly on the use of violence
Uh, it's not gun control that promotes a monopoly of the state on the use of violence, it's the law that does that.
and possibly preempt needing the consent of governed minorities.
Umm, I'm pretty sure most countries don't enact gun control laws because they're afraid that part of the populance will stage an armed rebellion, but simply because they believe guns have a tendency to escalate situations.
Do you have evidence that availability of guns causes suicide rather than contributing to their success? The overall suicide ratios for Germany and US were hardly different...
They don't "cause" suicide, but they raise the risk of going through with it. Many suicide attempts are one-time events and people without direct access to a gun have to jump through hoops that give them time for other people to take notice or have a "what the hell am I doing"-moment themselves. Other popular methods like sleeping pills have a much higher failure rate too and many people who go through a failed suicide attempt end up having a moment of clarity afterwards and seek help. So do guns actually cause suicide? No. But if someone falls on hard times and they start playing with the thought, direct access to a gun is the biggest liability he or she could have.
You're totally right mass murders cause emotional and often illogical reactions.
I never said mass murders cause illogical reactions. It's perfectly logical to want to make sure that what happened to one's loved ones won't happen to someone else's.
You dismiss the anti-totalitarian rationale of a armed populace very quick and based on some almost strawman where a man with a rifle can save us from a high tech tyrant using drones... this is a common argument but it ignores that armed populace is part of a whole where freedom of speech and association are also included. Hence methods to organize are assumed. It's also assumed part of the armed forces would be on the populace's side.
As a rule, if there's unrest in a country and the army sides with the populance over the government, the government is overthrown. (hence the reason so many heads of state in certain parts of the world are military leaders) If the army sides with the government, tough luck for the people. This rule applies whether the populance is armed or not. A well-informed public, the existence of safeguards within the democratic system and the lack of systemic corruption in the army and police force are vastly superior protective measures than private gun ownership.
Whatever, it's a counterfactual for the most part so it's not easy to argue anyway. But consider how different the 20th century might have been if 32% of German or Russian households were armed around the 1930s...
I kind of wonder if it'd really have been different. Private gun ownership is quite high in countries like Iraq and Saudi Arabia. Those countries are hardly the epitome of democracy.
How much traveling in small town America have you done? Everyone out where I live carries a gun rack and a smile. Going into the city that's loaded with guns AND laws against guns? Pissed off commuters and gangbangers a'plenty. I just go by what I see. Gun laws don't work. If they did, there wouldn't be either guns nor gun crimes. Society doesn't have machinery problems... it has operator problems.
The phenomenon you describe has nothing to do with gun laws and everything to do with social cohesion. Small towns in the US tend to have a very homogenous population, hence the more relaxed atmosphere. Large cities are large patchworks of all sorts of different ethnic, cultural and social groups, which creates a more distant and occasionally tense environment. I'm pretty sure that if one of those small towns you speak of were suddenly faced with a group of people of a different ethnic/cultural group moving there (preferably black or muslim) and adopting the same habit of openly carrying firearms around, there wouldn't be much smiling going on anymore. In fact, the "outsiders" packing heat wouldn't be experienced as folks merely making use of their constitutional rights, but folks preparing to take over.