grimwerk: Maybe if I actually do the work and fight through all the integration myself.
to understand why it is like it is, you will have to get through some university courses (which require a higher school education):
first you'll need basics in classic logic, simple set theory and number theory
then
linear algebra (vector space theory, maps, linear maps and matrices, permutations, determinants maybe more)
then
analysis 1,
analysis 2,
analysis 3 (real numbers, sequences, continuity, one dimensional differentiation, higher dimensional differentiation, basic topology, one dimensional integration, lebesgue integration, spherical coordinate system, measure theory maybe more)
to get through all of it you need 1 or 1,5 years, then you'll be able to see by yourself why the relation between dimension of sphere/ball and the potence of pi in the surface/volume formula is like it is. you'll be probably disappointed as there IS NO MAGIC, its more a matter of how you define
coordinate systems and
measures. additional its useful to know some theoretical physics like advanced mechanics, quantum theory and statistical physics.