SirPrimalform: More seriously, I stand by the idea that all games are suitable for women. However, in order to help you we need to know why a game might not be suitable for women (in your opinion) so that we might suggest things that avoid whatever your triggers are.
I would pretty much agree with that, with the proviso that there may be some games that are so sexist that they wouldn't be suitable for women, though I can't think of any really bad examples off hand. (Then again, I could argue that such horribly sexist games would not be suitable for *anyone*.)
One game I would recommend, if you don't mind something a bit queer, is Timespinner; it's a Metroidvania in a style similar to the GBA and DS Castlevanias, but it has a female main character and a large portion of the cast is LGBTQ+ in some way.
Edit: Why is this post "low rated"? What did I do wrong here?