DisobeyingWife: I've accepted the turn-based combat, but not all of us have the time for it. It's too slow, especially when there are many enemies and turns. My husband was so excited hearing about BG3. But since we pre-ordered it and he saw the combat, he just gave up on it. He can only afford so much time a day for enjoying a game. As someone who has to leave house early morning and come back late evening. And in case of turn-based combat, a fight can easily take an hour or even more when you want to play it with some challenge (not on easy difficulty mode).
Also, we prefer to continuously play a story driven game like BG3 until the finish. Not to wait for a weekend and try to remember what goals we've set in the last playthrough and what events were there two weeks ago. So, we are sad that this game is not RTwP. Though I understand the motives of the developers and will definetly play the game.
Please tell your husband that he hasn't seen the game yet...;) He has purchased a small fraction of the game in this Early Access release. 3/4-2/3 of the game will not be released until the game ships sometime within the next 12 months. Your husband bought an Early Access game--he did not buy the full game--which hasn't been finished or released. He's already paid for the full game, but that is still several months away, imo. So with the EA it is impossible to "play until it's finished." Because it is a long way from being finished by Larian. (Doesn't anyone read anymore before pressing the 'buy' button?)
Baldur's Gate3 is going to be a nice, long game taking dozens of hours to finish--so it doesn't look as if the difference between RTwP and turn-based is going to make much difference at all in the longevity of the game. I'm trying to make sense from your post, but it's difficult...;)