PoSSeSSeDCoW: The original Mass Effect had more sexual content than Mass Effect 2.
orcishgamer: I swear, acknowledging that people have sex is enough to prompt bitching about "blah, blah, blah... graphic" and "blah, blah, blah... sleazy". Do people who complain about this stuff ever read literature? Do they watch films?
INCOMING SLANG AND PROFANITY (you have been warned):
People fuck. Sometimes they do so without shutting the curtains. Sometimes they fuck when it's not dark.
Sex is as prominent as death in our psyches, get over it.
I'm afraid you completely missed my point.
Sex and romance is certainly most welcome in video games, especially if we want to reach same status as movies and literature in entertainment.
But, the style of presentation is what determines if sexual content is immature, degrading and ultimately working against us, like Bioware is. I mean, in DA2, Isabela character alone pushed us back 10 years.
What we need is believable sexual encounters and mature romance stuff, something I've partially seen in Witcher 1 with Shani and Triss, and I certainly hope that gets even better in Witcher 2.
Baldur's Gate 2 is also a very good example where your relationships with NPCs was almost all talking and the actual act of sex was a second of dark screen. But it was far more mature, deeper and believable than anything DA and ME games ever offered.
For me, Jaheira and Viconia are infinitely times more developed and believable characters, because they are presented as such. You only get to see their faces and by talking you get to know their personality.
Relationships and sex between persons is not all about seeing boobs on the screen. It is a complicated process involving chemistry, talking, flirting, friendship, rivalry... It can be a chase, it can be a cheap thrill, but it can also be a deep romance and love.
And that is the direction we need to push.
That is what gives games credibility it is not just stuff for little kids and adolescents.