SirPrimalform: Baz, as long as you don't think she'll mind, could you post Ghost's last PM to you? Obviously censoring sensitive info regarding the game.
I don't think she'd mind, so here's the full extent of our conversation (I just snipped out a tiny bit of personal info that I don't think should be made public):
Me:
Heya, Ghost, are you still around? We finally got to lynching someone, and we need a mod to do the honours.
GhostQlyph:
Actually, due to RL issues my modding days have come to an end. I apologize greatly, but I'm actually not even home at the moment. It's quite likely the next time I'll be home is in late October, and that will only be for a couple hours. It is quite a situation. [...] I'm also wrestling a nasty head cold and 2 hours of sleep. So.
Me:
Trust me when I say I understand. I really do. But I still have to ask: should we call the whole thing off, then? It would probably be for the best: have everyone reveal their role PM and just end this thing; it's been troubled enough already. Just say so, and I'll pass it on it in the thread itself.
I hope it all works out well for you. That's all that matters in the end, really.
GhostQlyph:
Kill it, my friend. And thank you.
Me:
Just making sure before I drop the axe: if I hypothetically found a replacement mod, would you be willing to to hand over the game to them, or do you consider this setup so much yours that you don't want that to happen? Also, Sir Primalform suggests putting the game on indefinite hold until you are ready to return -- would you be in favour of that?
But it's your game, and if you want to pull the plug now, I will do that.
And that was September 18. Haven't heard from her since.