You decided to help me because I chose sex for life, or because I suggested some "escort" (ahem) services to fellow GOGer? And thanks for the link, it's indeed very helpful
Very-very good reading that is. Suitable for all ages (almost), should be studied at schools imo.
Which is what Plato meant by : ''Always becoming, but never being!'', i.e. you feel excited while reaching your goal, but once you have done it, it becomes almost worthless, so you look for another goal to reach.
Yeah, I spent months thinking about what happiness is and decided that it is reaching goal which can't be reached. The whole journey for that very goal is happiness. I'm not a very happy man, but at least I learned how to smile in the face of ugly reality. And our life is the best thing we have, because we have no choice to select, not at the moment really. Carpe diem!