lukslo: Well you know, seeing that freshly member after a couple of months after you gifted him contribute to the community even by solely expressing his thoughts on topics is a very nice thing to see and a sort of "reward" for the gifter.
For some this is quite an important part of the gifting process. If you would like you can call it some sort of paying it forward.
TimTom92: I can't agree more! This is
exactly what it's about.
Gnostic: I agree. If your friend can't be bothered to post himself, how can people be bothered to gift him?
If he is uncomfortable to ask the gift himself, how are people comfortable in gifting him?
If he expect not to spend some effort on the forums, how can he expect people to spend more money and effort to buy said games to gift him and check said games goes to him?
TimTom92: And this as well!
To everyone reading his wishlist, maybe he is a good guy? Who knows..
I don't want him feeling attacked, but there are ways to go about doing things here.
Who am I to say he can't be gifted though. Please do as you will people, but
also please take caution. Especially around this time of year of giving.
Thank you,
- Tim
Ok I get it now, I had no idea this thing would blow up so much. I mean, I didn't know that it was I guess "taboo" to ask for optional generosity on his behalf since he's a shy guy and as stated would likely not participate in the forums because of that. I, in no means meant to offend the community by posting his wishlist. I figured that this was a gifting thread, that anyone who wanted to let others enjoy a game they wanted might give them a chance if they knew what they want. I admit, since this is the internet, this "friend" can be questionable to people since no one here personally knows me or my friends. That's why it's optional and I even provided additional statements on how I interacted with him regularly in life through clarification. Still, I am new to the forums, and this was my
first time posting in this thread, so I guess what I wanted was not for my gift wishes to be recognized but someone who was close to me (who is too shy with the forums), since I am satisfied so far with the way things stand for myself. Comments such as I am a scammer or people who gift him through me are idiots really hurt me, since it feels like a personal attack that really caught me off guard (and I can clearly see my posts were offensive due to rep decrease). I tried to be as transparent as possible (while respecting my friend's request for being anonymous) but clearly it wasn't proper or good enough. I emphasized once and again that this was an optional thing but I misunderstood the etiquette for how this thread works and I apologize for any inconvenience or even annoyance this caused for the community and as stated in a previous comment, "If, for some unknown reason, this stirs up controversy, then I'll remove it asap since that'll give me an idea that next time I shouldn't ask for any of my friends wishes in the future and leave it up to them to do it despite them being uncomfortable or something."
Again I apologize for my "newbie" mistake, and looking at this as glass half full concept, this experience has taught me a few things for future use of this thread and forum posts in general. One, never ask on a friend's behalf since you'll likely be wisked off as sketchy and a scammer. Two, keep this thread for individual basis only, unless a good amount of the community understands all the parties involved. Three, this is the internet so unless the connection is deep with all parties involved, don't expect anyone to think your an honest enough person to be a middle man for anything, especially games. If there any other concerns please let me know. Again sorry for any paranoia, stress, or even hate that arose from my post and I hope to not make my mistake twice! Thanks for the feedback everyone.