Posted October 07, 2017
Alaric.us
Slava Ukraini
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From United States
Breja
You're in my spot
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From Poland
Posted October 07, 2017
nvm
Post edited October 07, 2017 by Breja
sauvignon1
Yellow Jester
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From United States
Posted October 07, 2017
USERNAME:drmike#Q&_^Q&Q#GROUP:4#Q&_^Q&Q#LINK:13#Q&_^Q&Q#Probably doesn't want to do that since he mentioned another member who's an alumni who drives an hour for meetings.#Q&_^Q&Q#LINK:13#Q&_^Q&Q#
Ghostfromthepast
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From Portugal
Posted October 07, 2017
DeMignon: To be honest, the hardest way for you might be the best one. Talk to him one on one and tell him the plain truth. You have to give him the chance to understand the situation and to get a grip on himself. If he decides to stay nonetheless and changes for the better, good. If he leaves, good. If he stays and ignores your feedback, you can clearly vote against him with no remorse. It's hard to have this conversations, but it's fair, honest and eventually rather a winner for you.
^This! This is the best and most honest way to deal with the matter. Also... The first rule of Anime Club is to never...oh, wait... nevermind ;)
CharlesGrey
Original Grey
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From Germany
Posted October 07, 2017
Guys, it's all about priorities. None of you have bothered to ask the truly important questions.
... Does he have a printer?
... Does he have a printer?
227
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Posted October 07, 2017
high rated
If you're not willing to confront him, then one of you is going to have to bite the bullet and marry him. Then complain that he spends too much time with his club. It's not the solution you need, but it's the solution you probably deserve if that anonymous Facebook BS is a move you considered before just being honest with the guy.
Honestly, the politics of some members needing to save face and everyone being so paralyzed that they can't do anything for a year reflects much more poorly on your club than any one member ever could.
Honestly, the politics of some members needing to save face and everyone being so paralyzed that they can't do anything for a year reflects much more poorly on your club than any one member ever could.
Shadowstalker16
Proud corporate ally
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From India
Posted October 07, 2017
Saying nothing from the start was the biggest mistake. Now its become such a huge problem that you can't talk to him informally about it. If your reputation is what you're worried about, talk to him about his behavior through that and tell him indirectly to get back in line. No need to bring in personal dislike if there is a legitimate reason. Shouldn't be hard enough to organize a meeting before a new batch of students arrive and take him aside and tell him.
Also, its probably best to talk to the people who put the burden of kicking him to you. Ask them why your skin is worth less than theirs. Or how and why an anime club even has a hierarchy in the first place.
Also, its probably best to talk to the people who put the burden of kicking him to you. Ask them why your skin is worth less than theirs. Or how and why an anime club even has a hierarchy in the first place.
Alaric.us
Slava Ukraini
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fr33kSh0w2012
CyberFAGGOT 20 DOGSHITS!
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From Australia
Posted October 07, 2017
This is why I DO NOT JOIN Clubs!
timppu
Don't worry, be sorry.
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From Finland
Posted October 07, 2017
Of course it is easy for me (us) to say, but I'd also propose a direct approach.
First of all, does he realize at all that he is disliked? And if he does, doesn't he just care, or does it make him angry and even more unpleasant?
I propose not "contacting" him anonymously because... well, it is just cowardly and leaves a really sour taste in the mouth (you criticize someone personally without revealing yourself), and if he finally finds out who it was, all the worse for you.
First of all, does he realize at all that he is disliked? And if he does, doesn't he just care, or does it make him angry and even more unpleasant?
I propose not "contacting" him anonymously because... well, it is just cowardly and leaves a really sour taste in the mouth (you criticize someone personally without revealing yourself), and if he finally finds out who it was, all the worse for you.
Gede
GNU/Linux user
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serpantino
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From United Kingdom
Posted October 07, 2017
Find a really popular, long running, shonen series that he hates and dedicate entire sessions to it until he leaves. Set it up as a bit of a binge session, have people watch 25 episodes a week, have manga readings etc and then talk non-stop about how it's the greatest thing ever & discuss turning the group into one solely focused on fanboy/girl antics regarding that series (DIY stories, art work, fanfic -romance especially, etc.)
KasperHviid
Privilege de-elevation is needed
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From Denmark
Posted October 07, 2017
227: If you're not willing to confront him, then one of you is going to have to bite the bullet and marry him. Then complain that he spends too much time with his club. It's not the solution you need, but it's the solution you probably deserve if that anonymous Facebook BS is a move you considered before just being honest with the guy.
Honestly, the politics of some members needing to save face and everyone being so paralyzed that they can't do anything for a year reflects much more poorly on your club than any one member ever could.
+1Honestly, the politics of some members needing to save face and everyone being so paralyzed that they can't do anything for a year reflects much more poorly on your club than any one member ever could.
CharlesGrey
Original Grey
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From Germany
Posted October 07, 2017
serpantino: Find a really popular, long running, shonen series that he hates and dedicate entire sessions to it until he leaves. Set it up as a bit of a binge session, have people watch 25 episodes a week, have manga readings etc and then talk non-stop about how it's the greatest thing ever & discuss turning the group into one solely focused on fanboy/girl antics regarding that series (DIY stories, art work, fanfic -romance especially, etc.)
I like that approach, however the joke's on you if it turns out that he really loves that series.Tcharr
GoG Newb
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From United States
Posted October 09, 2017
He has been with you for over a year, and not one of you has confronted him about his alleged rudeness and smelliness? Congratulations! You are all complicit in his behavior. By not objecting, you have all consented to and validated his behavior.
"Hey, dude, did you jog here or something?"
"Yeah, how did you know?"
"Well, you smell kinda ripe, and we don't have the best ventilation in this room."
"Hey, dude, did you jog here or something?"
"Yeah, how did you know?"
"Well, you smell kinda ripe, and we don't have the best ventilation in this room."