Posted October 06, 2017
Rather strange question to ask in a place like this, but it needs to be taken care of.
So everyone at my university's local club is great, with the very noticable exception of one guy who is not a student. He's very rude, smelly, can't read social cues, etc. Basically take that bad image of "anime fan" that forms in your head and bring it to life. Nobody likes this guy. We're all friends but nobody is willing to hang out with him for good reasons. I'm good friends with all the officers, and they've said several times that they're just praying for the slightest excuse to kick him out. I really hate to be mean about something like this. Throwing someone out is not a pleasent idea, but honestly it has to be done. I feel having him hurts our club's reputation and could potentially turn off new members.
So have any of you guys dealt with a similar problem, and if so, how did you handle it?
An idea popped in my head today of taking an indirect direct approach by creating an anonymous burner facebook account and just messaging the guy to lay the cards on the table. Course I have no idea how that would play out, but it's either play the waiting game for him to do something (and he's been coming for like a year or so, so patience has been tested) or take matters into my own hands. This would be done purely alone without the knowledge of the officership, so I shoulder the burden of whatever happens and they can save face.
So everyone at my university's local club is great, with the very noticable exception of one guy who is not a student. He's very rude, smelly, can't read social cues, etc. Basically take that bad image of "anime fan" that forms in your head and bring it to life. Nobody likes this guy. We're all friends but nobody is willing to hang out with him for good reasons. I'm good friends with all the officers, and they've said several times that they're just praying for the slightest excuse to kick him out. I really hate to be mean about something like this. Throwing someone out is not a pleasent idea, but honestly it has to be done. I feel having him hurts our club's reputation and could potentially turn off new members.
So have any of you guys dealt with a similar problem, and if so, how did you handle it?
An idea popped in my head today of taking an indirect direct approach by creating an anonymous burner facebook account and just messaging the guy to lay the cards on the table. Course I have no idea how that would play out, but it's either play the waiting game for him to do something (and he's been coming for like a year or so, so patience has been tested) or take matters into my own hands. This would be done purely alone without the knowledge of the officership, so I shoulder the burden of whatever happens and they can save face.
No posts in this topic were marked as the solution yet. If you can help, add your reply