Alaric.us: You are taking this too far. This is nonsense and easy to rebuke. Saying this stuff gives all of us a bad name.
All humans are capable of emotions just the same. Neither sex is better than the other. All people deserve to be treated well. The differences between the sexes need to be valued. Neither sex can be happy and complete without the other. We aren't at war and shouldn't see ourselves as being at war.
hedwards: There's no evidence to support the view that men and women are equally capable of emotions and definitely none that this is uniform across all of humanity. We know that there's at least a subset of people who don't feel emotions to the same extent as the norm.
We also know that unlike women, men are expected to know how to regulate our own emotions and that men trying to emotionally blackmail women usually don't get away with it.
You can interpret this however you like, but there is a prima facia case to be made that men are the ones that understand emotions better.
There are bad men out there. And also bad women. Just bad people overall. But also good people. Men and women alike. We all encountered bad people in our lives. Some of them were men and some were women. Maybe you encountered more bad women, it's certainly possible.
But just as it's wrong to decry all men as bad simply because some of us are bad, it is equally wrong to decry all women as bad.
Half of the people in my life are women. Coworkers, teachers, friends, lovers. The majority of my family are women. Some of my favorite authors and musicians are women. I can't imagine my life without all of them. I love them, value them, respect them. I sympathize with their problems, just as they sympathize with mine.
Being a man, enjoying it, loving yourself, valuing yourself is not something that has to happen at the expense of women. It's not a zero sum game, it's not us vs. them. We are all people and we should all be treated the same.
Sometimes we are told that we are bad. Some of us are. Sometimes they are told they are bad. Some of them are. But most of us aren'd bad. It'd probably be a good thing to remember.