FrodoBaggins: Um... no. There's a huge difference with genuine affection between 2 people... and men objectifying women.
I actually make a difference between "genuine affection" and "sexual attraction". They are not directly related. For example: I might have genuine affection to my son, grandmother or a puppy, but that does not mean I am sexually attracted to any of them. Not at all.
Similarly, I might find some woman "mentally incompatible" with me (meaning I wouldn't necessarily want to spend the rest of my life with her), but I might still find sexual attraction to her.
However there is still some correlation, e.g. if I found some woman totally repulsive mentally, I probably wouldn't want to have sex with her either. Depends on the size of her titties, really.
FrodoBaggins: Would you still be as eager, if it was your daughter\sister\mother involved?
That is a similar question as me asking you "would you have sex with your brother or father?", and make assumptions on your level of "genuine affection" to them based on that.
Anyway, I thought this discussion was about games with digital titties, not real people. Naturally if the discussion is about real people involved (e.g. a live porn flick or a real strip dancer), then decent people expect that they are doing it on their own free will, naturally. If they are not, one should call the police.
So the actual question to me appears to be that should women be offended by the fact that men in general are aroused by the sight of beautiful female bodies, in this case digital bodies that are totally made up. In my opinion no, anymore than that men should be offended that many women like to watch or read romantic stories with totally made up men whose only reason to exist is to adore and compete for the female protagonist (think of e.g. the Twilight movies as a prime example), or that I should have been offended by that weirdo woman I used to know who rated men by their smell.
That similarly objectifies men, suggesting how they should think and behave (or smell), adoring and competing for the same women. Such stories stroke the ego of those women and girls who like to watch them, but I allow women to have their unrealistic sexual/romantic fantasies of men.
This is not a question of men sexually harassing women, unless you consider it "sexual harassment" towards you that some man is aroused by someone else's titties, not yours.
FrodoBaggins: I don't see any games on GOG that focus on men with there packages bulging out.
If women in general liked to buy and play lots of such games, then there would be such games too made and sold all the time.
However, since there is little demand among gaming girls and women for such games, and instead they like to read and watch unrealistic stories like the Twilight series, the entertainment industry concentrates on making the latter for women and girls.
Men and women just seem to be built differently there, getting aroused differently. Men in general appear to be more visual and can get more easily aroused by visual stimulus, while women may have at least partially different stimulus (like that smell thing that seemed overly important to that one woman).
We are in a dangerous path if we try to criminalize people simply getting aroused, as long as people are not harming other people, or animals, in order to get aroused. Inanimate objects, ok, you can harm them as much as you want, in order to get aroused.
Having said all that, I personally prefer games don't have sexual content, but for totally different reasons, like that they are safe to play also among my family, and also I fear such sexual games are not necessarily good games as games. I similarly oppose that games try to include political identity politics and shit, e.g. I never needed to know whether Garrett in the Thief games is hetero cis-male or gay or anything, and it is good that the games didn't make any number about that. (The only hint was that Garrett seemed a bit... interested in Viktoria, but we all know what happens there...)
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