BlueMooner: Let me throw another angle into this. How do hetero guys feel when other guys check them out?
How do you feel if another guy is subtly sneaking a peek? What if they're blatantly staring at your crotch with their mouth open? How do you feel if another guy whistles at you, winks at you, or basically does any of the millions of things straight guys do to women?
Have you ever gotten angry or had an emotional reaction? Ever yelled at the guy or threatened them? Ever been physically violent towards a guy for hitting on you? Do you see any discrepancy between how justified/normal you feel in ogling women and how inappropriate/wrong you feel with men ogling you?
I'm not focusing on the responses, just wondering how far you've gone to see things from someone else's perspective and how much you care about double standards.
I've been on the receiving end of that kind of attention and, frankly, it didn't bother me. Then again, this goes just for me and I can't speak for anyone else.