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AccurateArt: More biologically female? Did Bruce develop a vagina or ovaries? What does being more "biologically female" even mean?

Also, tell me what was Bruce's hormonal balance at birth? As I do not believe that gender is a malleable thing, I recognize one's biological gender :)

Looking forward to your response!
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dtgreene: Again, her name is "Caitlyn", not "Bruce".

Caitlyn's hormonal balance at birth was likely similar to that of any other child (regardless of sex), as she had not gone through puberty at that point.

Keep in mind, Caitlyn did develop breasts on hormones. Similarly, a trans man will develop facial hair and other masculine traits when on testosterone.
So the presence or absence of breasts is important but the lacking of other female parts is not?
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AccurateArt: So if I call Bruce --> Cailyn Jenner a wonderful and accomplished man, would you feel better?
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dtgreene: No, because she is not a man. Also, her name is "Caitlyn", not "Cailyn". ("Cailyn" sounds like it would work as a name, however.)
Ok, normally I'd try not to engage you on this subject, but whatever-their-name-is Jenner is a joke. Jenner has been pulling random publicity stunts, and garnered so much love from the liberal community for the sex change that they (happy, now?) got out of accidental murder for it. Maybe you feel like some people are women trapped in men's bodies or whatever, but Jenner isn't one of them and should not be celebrated for anything.
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dtgreene: What if you are already dating the transgender individual, but you don't realize it until the person tells you several dates in?
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zeogold: Then I would IMMEDIATELY dump them, because obviously there's a problem in the relationship if they're going to keep secrets as big as that from you. A lack of trust is a bad sign for a future partnership.
The problem is that there are definitely risks to disclosing one's transgender status. People have been murdered once other people have found out they are transgender. (See my topic about transgender murders: 20+ reported murders in the US in 2015 alone, and that's not counting murders in other countries.) As a result, it is not safe to disclose to somebody you don't already know well.
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AccurateArt: More biologically female? Did Bruce develop a vagina or ovaries? What does being more "biologically female" even mean?

Also, tell me what was Bruce's hormonal balance at birth? As I do not believe that gender is a malleable thing, I recognize one's biological gender :)

Looking forward to your response!
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dtgreene: Again, her name is "Caitlyn", not "Bruce".

Caitlyn's hormonal balance at birth was likely similar to that of any other child (regardless of sex), as she had not gone through puberty at that point.

Keep in mind, Caitlyn did develop breasts on hormones. Similarly, a trans man will develop facial hair and other masculine traits when on testosterone.
Also, I am looking at sex as something that happens naturally, not based on how many hormones they received artificially.

You can keep saying that Bruce is a woman. You know my position on it (Caitlin is a male in this case).

I do curious though to see what you think about this story: Chloe Jennings-White is an able bodied woman who identifies as being "transabled" meaning that although her legs function normally, she uses leg braces and a wheelchair because she identifies as being disabled. Is that something you would also agree with or does there seem to be something wrong with that?
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dtgreene: No, because she is not a man. Also, her name is "Caitlyn", not "Cailyn". ("Cailyn" sounds like it would work as a name, however.)
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zeogold: Ok, normally I'd try not to engage you on this subject, but whatever-their-name-is Jenner is a joke. Jenner has been pulling random publicity stunts, and garnered so much love from the liberal community for the sex change that they (happy, now?) got out of accidental murder for it. Maybe you feel like some people are women trapped in men's bodies or whatever, but Jenner isn't one of them and should not be celebrated for anything.
Not to mention Bruce has been getting attacked by feminists like Germaine Greer: "“I think misogyny plays a really big part in all of this, that a man who goes to these lengths to become a woman will be a better woman than someone who is just born a woman.”"On top of that, Bruce has been criticized for oversimplifying what it means to be a woman (picking out what outfits to wear).

I can see why one would want to avoid discussing this particular individual.
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dtgreene: I was actually not the one who brought up the issue. After asking if a certain other user would be attracted to a certain type of person (redheaded man with boobs, something that can reasonably happen), he (I assume from this person claiming to be attracted to women and not gay) mentioned "transgender". It just so happened that the thread happened to latch on to the topic.
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zeogold: You may not have started it, but you sure as heck escalated it. It's not exactly like you have the best track record on this issue, man. This isn't the first time you've baited an entire thread. I'm just happy it wasn't out of place this time.
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dtgreene: What if you are already dating the transgender individual, but you don't realize it until the person tells you several dates in?
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zeogold: Then I would IMMEDIATELY dump them, because obviously there's a problem in the relationship if they're going to keep secrets as big as that from you. A lack of trust is a bad sign for a future partnership.
i agree with you Zeogold, if someone cannot disclose the fact that they identify as transgendered from the start, I do not see why I should be with them as they are hiding something pretty big from me.
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AccurateArt: Not to mention [Caitlyn] has been getting attacked by feminists like Germaine Greer:
Germaine Greer is a known transphobe and TERF (Trans-Exclusive Radical Feminist). Try finding someone who is more respected by the trans community if you want to make this sort of argument.
In keeping with the topic of this thread (GOG Current Affairs), I thought I would post this and see what people think:

GOG has recently confirmed that they will be allowing developers to update their games:

"We will be rolling this out to selected developers in the first phases, but in general, yes, that's the idea. The more automated the whole process is, the more timely release we can have, and of course for new games getting updates on time is key." (http://www.gog.com/forum/general/gog_galaxy_beta_2/post3313)

The question is, will the standalone installers receive the updates at the same time as these updates go live. I'd love to see what people think about this.
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LeonardoCornejo: The attached picture states exactly what I think about the whole transgender topic. I know my rep will go down. I don't care.

[picture of Y chromosomes attached, with text saying "good luck reassigning this"]
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dtgreene: Except that the Y chromosome doesn't matter past birth, once sex has already been determined.

Edit: Added detail about attached picture in quote.
Well split my dick and call me Catlyn! You have stated a total lie. Y chromosomes do matter past birth. Genetics in general do matter past birth and any post natal change in genetics might lead to unnexpected results. Maybe you do not know how cancer works, but it is all about genes. Genes that give the wrong instructions. Chromosomes carry instructions in them.

To be honest I would rather discuss the legality of lolicon in different parts of the world than talking about LGBT(QLMNOP) topics. Specially since there will always be someone obsessed with a politically correct agenda.

I seriously mean it, you get your brains all worked up just because someone decides to treat Jenner as what he was born as.

Oh, and that reminds me the horror that comes with all these "gender" things. The made up pronouns. The butchering and murder of the language.
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AccurateArt: Not to mention [Caitlyn] has been getting attacked by feminists like Germaine Greer:
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dtgreene: Germaine Greer is a known transphobe and TERF (Trans-Exclusive Radical Feminist). Try finding someone who is more respected by the trans community if you want to make this sort of argument.
How is what I posted someone devalued by your statement? Bruce has been attacked by both the transgender community, liberals, feminists, conservatives, etc... I am simply saying that he is a divisive figure in many ways and I can understand why people would be hesitant in bringing him up.
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zeogold: Then I would IMMEDIATELY dump them, because obviously there's a problem in the relationship if they're going to keep secrets as big as that from you. A lack of trust is a bad sign for a future partnership.
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dtgreene: The problem is that there are definitely risks to disclosing one's transgender status. People have been murdered once other people have found out they are transgender. (See my topic about transgender murders: 20+ reported murders in the US in 2015 alone, and that's not counting murders in other countries.) As a result, it is not safe to disclose to somebody you don't already know well.
And I could be murdered for being black. If you're going to date, be upfront. Yes, there are risks, but if you're trying to build a deep and lasting relationship, there needs to be honesty. If I dated somebody like you and then only later explained that I'm a Christian and my beliefs are radically different, I guarantee you, there will be some issues.
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dtgreene: The problem is that there are definitely risks to disclosing one's transgender status. People have been murdered once other people have found out they are transgender. (See my topic about transgender murders: 20+ reported murders in the US in 2015 alone, and that's not counting murders in other countries.) As a result, it is not safe to disclose to somebody you don't already know well.
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zeogold: And I could be murdered for being black. If you're going to date, be upfront. Yes, there are risks, but if you're trying to build a deep and lasting relationship, there needs to be honesty. If I dated somebody like you and then only later explained that I'm a Christian and my beliefs are radically different, I guarantee you, there will be some issues.
I guess I am really confused as to why lying about who you are to someone you are dating would ever be acceptable.
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AccurateArt: In keeping with the topic of this thread (GOG Current Affairs), I thought I would post this and see what people think:

GOG has recently confirmed that they will be allowing developers to update their games:

"We will be rolling this out to selected developers in the first phases, but in general, yes, that's the idea. The more automated the whole process is, the more timely release we can have, and of course for new games getting updates on time is key." (http://www.gog.com/forum/general/gog_galaxy_beta_2/post3313)

The question is, will the standalone installers receive the updates at the same time as these updates go live. I'd love to see what people think about this.
I think it is generally a good idea, but I think gog.com should preserve the old version in case something goes wrong with the update and the user didn't download the game previously.

It is fortunate that, unlike Steam, gog.com doesn't make updates mandatory. (There have been some times mandatory updates have caused issues; Skyrim 1.2, for example, was so bad that 1.3 was just a regression fix.)

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LeonardoCornejo: I seriously mean it, you get your brains all worked up just because someone decides to treat Jenner as what [she] was born as.
First, use the correct pronoun (especially since her pronoun choice isn't something exotic).

Also, you were born as a baby. Do you want to be treated as a baby all your life?

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zeogold: And I could be murdered for being black. If you're going to date, be upfront. Yes, there are risks, but if you're trying to build a deep and lasting relationship, there needs to be honesty. If I dated somebody like you and then only later explained that I'm a Christian and my beliefs are radically different, I guarantee you, there will be some issues.
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AccurateArt: I guess I am really confused as to why lying about who you are to someone you are dating would ever be acceptable.
Except that there is no lying involved. It would only be lying if a trans person explicitly claimed to be cis.

It is not a lie for a trans man to claim that he is a man, or for a trans woman to claim that she is a woman.
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zeogold: So, suddenly, I'M the bad guy because I'm too choosy? It's MY choice who I interact with. Maybe I don't even want these people as my friends!
Yeah maybe. Would you want "these people" as your grocery store clerk? Bank teller? Boss? What about your employee or your renter. It's a pretty slippery slope choosing who you interact with. In many places, it is against the law to make those choices in the public sphere. But hey, you get to sleep with and drink with whoever you choose and I have no argument against that.

Lord knows I shouldn't be weighing in. I believe in live and let live regarding consensual issues and have no problem with people living their lives how they choose. Conservatives disagree vehemently. But I'm seen around here as transphobic because I'm a stoner and use the word "dude" equally for any gender identity. :)
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LeonardoCornejo: I seriously mean it, you get your brains all worked up just because someone decides to treat Jenner as what [she] was born as.
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dtgreene: First, use the correct pronoun (especially since her pronoun choice isn't something exotic).

Also, you were born as a baby. Do you want to be treated as a baby all your life?
No, because you grow out of it into your biological gender. Being born with a gender, claiming a gender, and injecting yourself with hormones are all different things.
And before you even TRY to bring up the point of people with gender dissociation disorder, let me point out that these people are in the very slim minority.
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AccurateArt: I guess I am really confused as to why lying about who you are to someone you are dating would ever be acceptable.
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dtgreene: Except that there is no lying involved. It would only be lying if a trans person explicitly claimed to be cis.

It is not a lie for a trans man to claim that he is a man, or for a trans woman to claim that she is a woman.
Regardless of whether you consider it lying or not, it's still a bad idea. The truth is almost guaranteed to be found out, and you'd be setting yourself up for a huge problem by not saying anything beforehand.

If you'll excuse the potential bitter-sounding-ness in this argument, I could use the liberal rallies against you here:
If you're so sure of your actual gender, shouldn't you be proud/unashamed of it? If you weren't so sure you wanted to do it to begin with, then why do it?
What I like best about this thread is we now have two people who can't seem to stop steering things to their pet issue.

We need to have an epic rap battle between El Lolicon Pendejo and MC Trans.

dtgreene, you start.
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zeogold: So, suddenly, I'M the bad guy because I'm too choosy? It's MY choice who I interact with. Maybe I don't even want these people as my friends!
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budejovice: Yeah maybe. Would you want "these people" as your grocery store clerk? Bank teller? Boss? What about your employee or your renter. It's a pretty slippery slope choosing who you interact with. In many places, it is against the law to make those choices in the public sphere. But hey, you get to sleep with and drink with whoever you choose and I have no argument against that.

Lord knows I shouldn't be weighing in. I believe in live and let live regarding consensual issues and have no problem with people living their lives how they choose. Conservatives disagree vehemently. But I'm seen around here as transphobic because I'm a stoner and use the word "dude" equally for any gender identity. :)
Those sorts of things are perfectly fine, and I have no issue. People are people. Maybe the bank teller is some sort of drunken, violent dude in his personal life. That's none of my business so long as he does his job right. I'm talking about a PERSONAL relationship here.
If you need an example, look at El Lolicon Pendejo up there. Sure, maybe you wouldn't want to associate with such a guy (mainly out of fear of getting arrested), but if he's come to fix your TV, you'd let him fix your TV and pay him a fair price for it. I'm not going to stigmatize him and assume he'll put lolicon porn on it (and if he does, that's a matter for the police).
Post edited January 12, 2016 by zeogold