Im sorry for anyone that you know, but women just don't make sense for the most part.
You literally can't win if you just want to get a regular girlfriend. You have like everything stacked against you and here's why. 5 girls I went after and just wanted to get to know them and all acted REALLY strange behavior. One even asked me to get lunch then when I called her she not only avoided my calls, she refused to answer me on any email legitimate.
If a woman asks a guy to have sex with him 10/10s he will say yes unless she is not attractive or the guy is gay. If a guy asks a girl the same question- 9/10 she will say no.
I really can finally see why marriage numbers are dwindling, because relationships and normal behavior when around them just don't mesh as well as they do.\
People just aren't getting married anymore.
As soon as my misogynistic bud comes back from New York, we're going on a hell of a ride, heh.
Women are hardwired to play hard to get and hold off for the best of the lot (or the best of the lot that they can get), because they evolved in a context where the contraceptive pill and alimony didn't exist.
Men are hardwired to fool around because they evolved in a context where there was not real setback for that behavior for their gender.
Yes, there is an inherent conflict of interest here and probably a frustrating one for many men.
As you grow older, you naturally become more suitable in many ways and finding a mate becomes considerably easier (though you're likely to care about it a lot less by then, something that ironically makes you more desirable as other posters indicated), but I get that it can be incredibly frustrating for many young men who don't know how to approach women. All those raging youth hormones are messing with your brain and hurting your chances of finding someone and there's no real off switch (well, exercising does help).
If you want my honest to goodness opinion, I think that if we weren't in a societal structure that instilled the principle of monogamy in people, a good portion of women would probably prefer to share an ideal mate than settle for a less ideal one.
It's probably not the most politically correct thing to say, but I think we are a lot closer to many other animals who display such behavior than we realize.