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Phc7006: Cavefamily
Did you just come up with all this yourself? =)
Post edited October 31, 2013 by Primate
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Phc7006: Cavefamily
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Primate: Did you just come up with all this yourself? =)
I'm afraid I did ;-)
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tinyE: I just want a girl friend. No jokes, no puns, no double entendres.
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gamefreak1972: Actually I'd keep all those. The intelligent ones (male or female) love a good laugh. :)
Indeed! ;-)
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fortune_p_dawg: Y'know, I'm not Fabio or anything but I've never had any issues with dating or meeting women. During the courting/dating phase of any relationship I've always found that keeping oneself occupied with things other than the person you're trying to get with and just a touch of a 'I don't give a shit' attitude really helps. It creates a certain appealing mystique.

Hell, I'm married with a third kid on the way and some of this stuff STILL applies. This difference is that when you're married you have to make an effort to be mysterious; when you're single it should be effortless.

And this sounds like a redundant 'bro' line but go to the damn gym or get an exercise routine together at home. I'm not saying you need to get ripped or anything, it just helps boost energy levels and with that things like general outlook on people, attitude, etc.

And I don't think a brooding, spiteful attitude (which it seems like everyone has on the internet) ever helped anyone get their dick willingly sucked. Everyone needs to take a deep breath, give each other some BJs, eat some avocados, and be happy.
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Primate: Well said. =)

I think being social, happy, a little confident, relaxed, patient, courteous and obviously willing and able to take care of oneself and invest in the future are likely success factors here. Some maturity and life experience doesn't hurt either. Nervous? Work on it and give it time. Be optimistic and never give up. Always get back on your feet after falling and make sure you learn from it. Be a man. Don't be fooled / "emasculated" / whatever by modern gender equity (which IMO is important), the focus on "modern" and "soft" men and so on. My impression is that many women today like relatively masculine guys, but that might just be me.

Then again, people can be quite different. I for one don't think I'd want to live without women. Some of them are just wonderful. And yeah, giving and receiving head with some skill and devotion is important, IMHO.
Excellent posts, guys ;-)

Staying physically connected is vital to maintaining a healthy, ongoing relationship - those endorphins are amazing.

As is a level of respect, care and attention - a bit of those things on a daily basis and you're good for years and years ;-)
Obviously she hasn't gotten to my E*Harmony joke yet. :P

The shit is about to hit the fan.
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tinyE: I just want a girl friend. No jokes, no puns, no double entendres.
Agreed. Once you go triple-entendre you don't go back.
An intimate relationship is about doing what you can to please the other. Sex is part of that, but if your relationship is rather about what you can get out of it, then it's likely just going to be the first in a string of bad relationships. Being pleased yourself is a mutual byproduct of pleasing the other.
Post edited October 31, 2013 by Soyeong
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_Bruce_: Perhaps your attitude that girls are so different or 'suck' is your first problem.

Perhaps your second is were you are finding them.

In my experience most females are like most males - just people. Treat them like people.
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
Sometimes being right is very important, but other times there's more important things than proving you're right.
Post edited October 31, 2013 by Soyeong
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
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Soyeong: Sometimes being right is very important, but other times there's more important things than proving you're right.
Years ago my mother made it very clear to my father and I, there is her way and then there is the wrong way.
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_Bruce_: Perhaps your attitude that girls are so different or 'suck' is your first problem.

Perhaps your second is were you are finding them.

In my experience most females are like most males - just people. Treat them like people.
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
i give you right.
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Phc7006: Well, you could expect a member of your species to act logically, but it's far from guaranteed. A lot of actions are still dictated by what conditionned our cavemen ancestors. And , apparently, men and women had then very different approaches to life and survival techniques.
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Silverhawk170485: The point is that she wasn't able to accept that when she was wrong. As I said I could also proove that I was right. So that was not only a opinion of mine, it was a fact. When I'm wrong I accept that. But her argueing was like that: "It's that way. No further explanation." I don't know if talking bullshit and being ignorant was a survival technique of female caveman. I have to google that. ;)

Maybe it was also a fault because she was 7 years younger than I and deep under my educational level.
She finished with the lowest school grade possible in germany (if you are not disabled). I finished university and will become lawyer in about one year.
why do you date underaged mentally retarded women? fucking germany.
Post edited November 03, 2013 by rrr8891
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monkeydelarge: No. Natural selection needs to stopped or slowed at least.

Why?
Because the internet (perhaps something in this thread, even) is exaggerating a lack of fitness (evolutionarily) in the population. Natural selection keeps the majority of the population in good health. With no natural selection and over an evolutionary period of time, an absence of selection pressure for potential mates can result into a genetic drift away from "good health". (Not in my lifetime, though.)

Wanting to "stop" natural selection may come from a place of good-nature and humanity, but natural selection is also what keeps the population from altogether dying of illness before a cohort successfully reaches an age of sexual maturity and recruits.

Also, comment is half-facetious.
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
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rrr8891: i give you right.
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Silverhawk170485: The point is that she wasn't able to accept that when she was wrong. As I said I could also proove that I was right. So that was not only a opinion of mine, it was a fact. When I'm wrong I accept that. But her argueing was like that: "It's that way. No further explanation." I don't know if talking bullshit and being ignorant was a survival technique of female caveman. I have to google that. ;)

Maybe it was also a fault because she was 7 years younger than I and deep under my educational level.
She finished with the lowest school grade possible in germany (if you are not disabled). I finished university and will become lawyer in about one year.
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rrr8891: why do you date underaged mentally retarded women? fucking germany.
LOL from your words but come on, no trolling...
Post edited November 04, 2013 by monkeydelarge
Has anyone commented about "what" these girls have been sucking?
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valdaintheking: Im sorry for anyone that you know, but women just don't make sense for the most part.

You literally can't win if you just want to get a regular girlfriend. You have like everything stacked against you and here's why. 5 girls I went after and just wanted to get to know them and all acted REALLY strange behavior. One even asked me to get lunch then when I called her she not only avoided my calls, she refused to answer me on any email legitimate.

If a woman asks a guy to have sex with him 10/10s he will say yes unless she is not attractive or the guy is gay. If a guy asks a girl the same question- 9/10 she will say no.

I really can finally see why marriage numbers are dwindling, because relationships and normal behavior when around them just don't mesh as well as they do.\

People just aren't getting married anymore.

As soon as my misogynistic bud comes back from New York, we're going on a hell of a ride, heh.
Women are hardwired to play hard to get and hold off for the best of the lot (or the best of the lot that they can get), because they evolved in a context where the contraceptive pill and alimony didn't exist.

Men are hardwired to fool around because they evolved in a context where there was not real setback for that behavior for their gender.

Yes, there is an inherent conflict of interest here and probably a frustrating one for many men.

As you grow older, you naturally become more suitable in many ways and finding a mate becomes considerably easier (though you're likely to care about it a lot less by then, something that ironically makes you more desirable as other posters indicated), but I get that it can be incredibly frustrating for many young men who don't know how to approach women. All those raging youth hormones are messing with your brain and hurting your chances of finding someone and there's no real off switch (well, exercising does help).

If you want my honest to goodness opinion, I think that if we weren't in a societal structure that instilled the principle of monogamy in people, a good portion of women would probably prefer to share an ideal mate than settle for a less ideal one.

It's probably not the most politically correct thing to say, but I think we are a lot closer to many other animals who display such behavior than we realize.
Post edited November 05, 2013 by Magnitus
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Magnitus: If you want my honest to goodness opinion, I think that if we weren't in a societal structure that instilled the principle of monogamy in people, a good portion of women would probably prefer to share an ideal mate than settle for a less ideal one.

It's probably not the most politically correct thing to say, but I think we are a lot closer to many other animals who display such behavior than we realize.
Why did the name of Valeria Messalina spring to my mind ?