Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
Have you ever talked to males? This is pretty much standard human behaviour. You have to learn how to deal with these situations (and relationships) better. Or find someone (whatever gender) who can work with your personality.
It's standard childish behavior. I prefer not to get close with childish people. Unfortunately, childish males and females are everywhere.
Well, you could expect a member of your species to act logically, but it's far from guaranteed. A lot of actions are still dictated by what conditionned our cavemen ancestors. And , apparently, men and women had then very different approaches to life and survival techniques.
The point is that she wasn't able to accept that when she was wrong. As I said I could also proove that I was right. So that was not only a opinion of mine, it was a fact. When I'm wrong I accept that. But her argueing was like that: "It's that way. No further explanation." I don't know if talking bullshit and being ignorant was a survival technique of female caveman. I have to google that. ;)
Maybe it was also a fault because she was 7 years younger than I and deep under my educational level.
She finished with the lowest school grade possible in germany (if you are not disabled). I finished university and will become lawyer in about one year.
I've lived in Germany for around 5 years so I know what I'm talking about. People from university there and people from the lowest grade school are like two different species, man. Next time, you should get with a girl who has a lot in common with you. Same level of education, same career etc. That is what most Germans do and it works well for them.
And why is that a bad thing? A fuckton of people want to get married one day and/or have kids. Are they horrible people because of that?
I also thought the same thing the first time I read through, but, maybe AlKim refers to the fact that some people treats those things as achievements and not as stepping stones to real goals. For example, if you really want a game, your goal shouldn´t be to get money, getting the money is just one possible way of reaching your real goal, that is getting the game. Same with the things AlKim mentioned.
In your example, having a girlfriend, having sex, marriage shouldn´t be the goals, but the intermediate steps to the real goal, that´d be, being happy with a family.
You are a wise man.