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spindown: No no no, you should never let minorities such as women challenge the way you think.
Mind you, I have more problems with other minorities such as politically correct politicians, central bankers and religious extremists... Sarcasm of course

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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms.
Well, you could expect a member of your species to act logically, but it's far from guaranteed. A lot of actions are still dictated by what conditionned our cavemen ancestors. And , apparently, men and women had then very different approaches to life and survival techniques.
Post edited October 30, 2013 by Phc7006
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
Have you ever talked to males? This is pretty much standard human behaviour. You have to learn how to deal with these situations (and relationships) better. Or find someone (whatever gender) who can work with your personality.
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Phc7006: Well, you could expect a member of your species to act logically, but it's far from guaranteed. A lot of actions are still dictated by what conditionned our cavemen ancestors. And , apparently, men and women had then very different approaches to life and survival techniques.
The point is that she wasn't able to accept that when she was wrong. As I said I could also proove that I was right. So that was not only a opinion of mine, it was a fact. When I'm wrong I accept that. But her argueing was like that: "It's that way. No further explanation." I don't know if talking bullshit and being ignorant was a survival technique of female caveman. I have to google that. ;)

Maybe it was also a fault because she was 7 years younger than I and deep under my educational level.
She finished with the lowest school grade possible in germany (if you are not disabled). I finished university and will become lawyer in about one year.
Post edited October 30, 2013 by Silverhawk170485
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AlKim: To me, it seems the OP treats sex, getting a girlfriend and marriage as if they were goals in life. Okay, so it doesn't automatically turn one into a mistreating monster, but it doesn't give a particularly favourable impression of one either.
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Immoli: And why is that a bad thing? A fuckton of people want to get married one day and/or have kids. Are they horrible people because of that?
I also thought the same thing the first time I read through, but, maybe AlKim refers to the fact that some people treats those things as achievements and not as stepping stones to real goals. For example, if you really want a game, your goal shouldn´t be to get money, getting the money is just one possible way of reaching your real goal, that is getting the game. Same with the things AlKim mentioned.
In your example, having a girlfriend, having sex, marriage shouldn´t be the goals, but the intermediate steps to the real goal, that´d be, being happy with a family.
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Immoli: And why is that a bad thing? A fuckton of people want to get married one day and/or have kids. Are they horrible people because of that?
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LoboBlanco: I also thought the same thing the first time I read through, but, maybe AlKim refers to the fact that some people treats those things as achievements and not as stepping stones to real goals. For example, if you really want a game, your goal shouldn´t be to get money, getting the money is just one possible way of reaching your real goal, that is getting the game. Same with the things AlKim mentioned.
In your example, having a girlfriend, having sex, marriage shouldn´t be the goals, but the intermediate steps to the real goal, that´d be, being happy with a family.
Give this person a cigar, because they got it. valdaintheking makes absolutely zero mention of equality, companionship and genuine care i.e. what I consider fundamental for a relationship. Yes, I might be a bit soft in this respect, but at least I don't hate half the world's population because of an unhealthy outlook.
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AlKim: To me, it seems the OP treats sex, getting a girlfriend and marriage as if they were goals in life. Okay, so it doesn't automatically turn one into a mistreating monster, but it doesn't give a particularly favourable impression of one either.
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Immoli: And why is that a bad thing? A fuckton of people want to get married one day and/or have kids. Are they horrible people because of that?
No, but seeing those things as primary goals in themselves is likely to result in disaster. If you just want to get married, and are simply trying to accomplish that, chances are you'll end up married to someone it really isn't worth being married to. The same goes for relationships and sex. Make them goals in themselves, and you're likely to make some really bad choices. Like either making someone else very unhappy, or having someone else make you very unhappy. You shouldn't get married just because you want to get married, you should get married because you've found someone special you want to be married to.
Post edited October 30, 2013 by Wishbone
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tinyE: I just want a girl friend. No jokes, no puns, no double entendres.
Get a fleshlight, all the positives without the negatives.
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
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_Bruce_: Have you ever talked to males? This is pretty much standard human behaviour. You have to learn how to deal with these situations (and relationships) better. Or find someone (whatever gender) who can work with your personality.
It's standard childish behavior. I prefer not to get close with childish people. Unfortunately, childish males and females are everywhere.
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Phc7006: Well, you could expect a member of your species to act logically, but it's far from guaranteed. A lot of actions are still dictated by what conditionned our cavemen ancestors. And , apparently, men and women had then very different approaches to life and survival techniques.
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Silverhawk170485: The point is that she wasn't able to accept that when she was wrong. As I said I could also proove that I was right. So that was not only a opinion of mine, it was a fact. When I'm wrong I accept that. But her argueing was like that: "It's that way. No further explanation." I don't know if talking bullshit and being ignorant was a survival technique of female caveman. I have to google that. ;)

Maybe it was also a fault because she was 7 years younger than I and deep under my educational level.
She finished with the lowest school grade possible in germany (if you are not disabled). I finished university and will become lawyer in about one year.
I've lived in Germany for around 5 years so I know what I'm talking about. People from university there and people from the lowest grade school are like two different species, man. Next time, you should get with a girl who has a lot in common with you. Same level of education, same career etc. That is what most Germans do and it works well for them.

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Immoli: And why is that a bad thing? A fuckton of people want to get married one day and/or have kids. Are they horrible people because of that?
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LoboBlanco: I also thought the same thing the first time I read through, but, maybe AlKim refers to the fact that some people treats those things as achievements and not as stepping stones to real goals. For example, if you really want a game, your goal shouldn´t be to get money, getting the money is just one possible way of reaching your real goal, that is getting the game. Same with the things AlKim mentioned.
In your example, having a girlfriend, having sex, marriage shouldn´t be the goals, but the intermediate steps to the real goal, that´d be, being happy with a family.
You are a wise man.
Post edited October 30, 2013 by monkeydelarge
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valdaintheking: Im sorry for anyone that you know, but women just don't make sense for the most part.

You literally can't win if you just want to get a regular girlfriend. You have like everything stacked against you and here's why. 5 girls I went after and just wanted to get to know them and all acted REALLY strange behavior. One even asked me to get lunch then when I called her she not only avoided my calls, she refused to answer me on any email legitimate.

If a woman asks a guy to have sex with him 10/10s he will say yes unless she is not attractive or the guy is gay. If a guy asks a girl the same question- 9/10 she will say no.

I really can finally see why marriage numbers are dwindling, because relationships and normal behavior when around them just don't mesh as well as they do.\

People just aren't getting married anymore.

As soon as my misogynistic bud comes back from New York, we're going on a hell of a ride, heh.
Girls are trouble, pal. Trouble with a capital T. They've even indirectly caused you trouble right here, just look at how your post has been low rated. You should feel lucky you were snubbed. Once you're married and have kids, that's it. Show's over. You've dodged a bullet or two, but if you keep looking for trouble, you're gonna find it. Is there not enough porn on the internet to keep you pacified? Maybe you need to pick up a new fetish or something.
"Does this make any sense or do girls just suck"

Well, some do, if you're lucky.



... Sorry, couldn't help it. :x
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_Bruce_: Perhaps your attitude that girls are so different or 'suck' is your first problem.

Perhaps your second is were you are finding them.

In my experience most females are like most males - just people. Treat them like people.
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Silverhawk170485: Are you serious? In my opinion they are no logical thinking lifeforms. For example my exgirlfriend blamed me for correcting her when she was talking bullshit. She did very often. She said: "You never give me right. I feel stupid when you correct me." I thought: "Yes you are stupid." but I said: "I'll give you right when you are right." I always had the better arguments and could also proove that I was right and she was wrong. In her arguments she always turned and twisted the reality so that they fitted to her fantasy word. Instead of accepting that, she quit the relationship. Stupid bitch.
sorry mate, you just sound like a dick. if someone is constantly correcting you (and thinks you are stupid), there is a good chance you are going to end that relationship.
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Yeah, I can't possibly imagine what you're doing wrong.




LOL
This was my latest foray into relationships. I've gone to ground for about 30 years:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPdDdC4go6c&t=90
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I recently tried E*Harmony. They rejected my application.

When they asked me what I like in a woman evidently "My dick" was the wrong answer.
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tinyE: I just want a girl friend. No jokes, no puns, no double entendres.
Actually I'd keep all those. The intelligent ones (male or female) love a good laugh. :)