MsbS: The expenses of getting married are ALL about culture. Just because all your family, family's family, and all their bloody neighbours expect that you'd invite them to your wedding,.
Please, don't make the mistake of comparing weddings, etc., in one country to the norm for your country. With some Googling, you'd probably get a greater idea of weddings over here (of special interest would be the "extravagant" weddings of the eighties. Only South Korea could probably come close to those. As it is, the cost of weddings in Japan are not just borne by the Wife's/Groom's family (or whatever the convention is for the West these days), but is ultimately paid for by everyone who attends*. But that still doesn't offset the horrendous costs demanded by the Wedding halls.
* Gifts are not given at weddings. The norm here is to offer a cash gift. This is the same for pretty much every occasion, including funerals.
MsbS: Agreed. But still many people choose to bear all these expenses. Fortunately - otherwise we'd all be extinct by now.
In Japan, an ever decreasing number. It's one reason why the birth rate is declining year on year.
MsbS: But anyway - I don't think simply complaining on a video game forum can change it. Maybe if you complained on a Japanese political forum, you could change a thing or two, or at least be heard by the gov't?
Hah. One, I doubt such a forum where actual members of the government will listen to exists. And two, I'm not Japanese. I only live here. As such, I have no say in anything. Non-Japanese do not have the right to vote. And it's unlikely they ever will.
MsbS: You mentioned women's too high financial expectations, but these expectations must have some root cause.
Of course there's bound to be root causes. The wide ranging ones would be the ever increasing cost of living, difficulties in finding employment (this after all, is the country where at one point fairly recently, the best job an educated woman could expect was to operate an elevator) and so forth.